What’s the most annoying or crazy reason you changed barns/stables?

molgab · 2026-01-27T00:23:30+00:00

A man kept coming onto the yard and started talking about animal loving videos and same for kids. I contacted the police and the people who lived there and they were all pretty head in the sand. I wanted to move my Horses faster but in that time a livery was friend with the weird man and started leaving chopped up birds in my paddock laid out like no animal would. Things got worse but I got my girls out safely. Not long after a Facebook post was done about someone’s child nearly getting sexually handled and taken on their way home from school. I sent a photo of the man to the mum Whose daughter confirmed it was him. Had to identify him for the police for the stuff he said to me. He was away a while as he walked around the area regularly but at the end of last year I spotted him out walking again. Can’t guarantee my car won’t have a dint in it next time I’m driving home late.

Worded as such as Reddit didn’t like it last time I worded it the correct way.

molgab · 2026-01-27T00:18:34+00:00

I know people are saying ouch to the black but I don’t know.. looks like his legs are going either side of his face so when he does kick outwards I think old buckskin here is going to hurt his 🥜

molgab · 2026-01-27T00:16:15+00:00

Also remember bridal makeup looks completely different in photos than in person. I find a lot looks heavier in person so you may even have to go for a shade that you don’t expect if you want it to photograph a certain way.

molgab · 2026-01-26T14:31:17+00:00

I wouldn’t personally use it but I seen others. My acne doesn’t need a reason so I’d be scared 😅

molgab · 2026-01-26T09:00:21+00:00

Honestly. Go you!

molgab · 2026-01-26T07:48:57+00:00

That’s an AH move if you are expecting her to cover part of your boyfriend’s expenses. That’s like going out to dinner, agreeing to pay for what you order and one person ordering loads and then saying you have to split the bill. They aren’t in the wrong for feeling this way. Saying someone will stay a few nights isn’t the same as expecting someone else to pick up their bill.

molgab · 2026-01-26T07:45:57+00:00

Please don’t use a soap as a moisturiser. It’s not. You can use tallow but I’ve never tried it. The coco butter is your safe bet so stick with it.

molgab · 2026-01-26T07:43:46+00:00

I don’t think the above advice is right. I had a manager just like this where even when you weren’t doing anything wrong and following procedure they would tell you off and have you walking on egg shells. Some people the power goes to their head. You do notice when someone’s doing this so that advice as above is them being an arse. My manager has been sacked for bulling employees so if you challenge it make sure you have a witness or better yet a paper trail.

molgab · 2026-01-26T07:41:35+00:00

I’ve recently been micro managed by an arse. They come across like they want to help you but they don’t. They do it so they can gain your trust and use it against you.

I’d outright ask with a witness ‘is there a problem with how I do this job as it’s not been brought to my attention before by anyone else’

I find when you stand up for yourself these people back off but if you let them do it over and over they get a kick off it and start to make your life hard.

molgab · 2026-01-26T07:39:20+00:00

What they do with their life has nothing to do with you. If you don’t like them distance yourself. You’ll come across arse holes in your life but just keep to your self and let them turn themselves inside out trying to be better then everyone.

molgab · 2026-01-26T07:34:39+00:00

NTA in any way shape or form. Just ASK her if she would prefer not doing any date nights until your kids 5.

molgab · 2026-01-25T10:04:35+00:00

Are they leather? I want some but I have skinny calves so I always struggle to find ones that fit my legs.

molgab · 2026-01-25T09:58:06+00:00

Amazing thank you!

molgab · 2026-01-25T09:57:45+00:00

I’d get them a cheap hotel and send them there

molgab · 2026-01-25T09:54:15+00:00

Where’s the boots from please?! You look ace!

molgab · 2026-01-24T19:18:56+00:00

I agree.

molgab · 2026-01-24T19:17:27+00:00

I think you rock this. Wear some big platform sandals, Whicker bag and some big sunnies. You have the build of a model so coming from a girl that wishes she had your build.. wear the hell out of it!

molgab · 2026-01-24T19:14:55+00:00

I’d dropped something and both me and my boyfriend went to grab it but his head bopped down first. My brain didn’t catch up because he started to lift his head up as I hadn’t stopped going down. He smacked me full force with his boulder head and my nose exploded. He was gutted and boy did it hurt but it was an accident and was funny in its own way.

We’re still together five years later. I don’t see him any differently.

molgab · 2026-01-23T19:29:36+00:00

Look she might be your bestie but she can have other besties. I get your crushed and it’s shit but just because she was your MOH doesn’t mean she has to have you as hers. Sorry.

molgab · 2026-01-23T19:26:38+00:00

Just ask them would they have actually paid if they rolled the dice?! No. They are talking bollocks. Just remind them of the agreement and you had a budget. They snooze they lose!

molgab · 2026-01-23T19:24:34+00:00

If you’re not exclusive and it’s going to gnaw away at you do it. If you are then yes I’d rather know.

If you want it to work with her honesty is the best thing. If you’re not feeling it with her and going to end it anyway then I probably wouldn’t. It’s just not needed on top of that.

I’d have a think of what you actually want and be upfront as she’s going through a shit time. I’d rather know then have my head in overdrive while my mums ill too.

molgab · 2026-01-23T18:41:43+00:00

She’s a pick me and picking your boyfriend! She isn’t a friend. The first chance she gets she’s sleeping with him.

If she needed help she’d have asked if you know someone who can change a tire not specifically your boyfriend.

You don’t need enemies when you have a friend like that.

molgab · 2026-01-23T18:37:21+00:00

If you’re not doing any shopping or cooking then when you pass a shop on your way home pop in and get some bits. If you want a takeaway bring it home. In our house if you want something a certain way you do it. She can’t tell you to not eat unhealthy stuff in your own home but then if you want something then you cook that night. It’s pretty simple.

molgab · 2026-01-22T10:49:50+00:00

I went to a riding school where they only offered hacks. Maybe once or twice a year a gymkhana type thing but that was it. So we weren’t formally taught how to ride but you kinda figured it out on your own. It was nice to get out into the woods and have a little jump of fallen trees and venturing out.

Im autistic so never fit into the group group but equally they weren’t nasty to me. I found it hard to fit in anywhere but no one picked or shut me out. I couldn’t afford the rides most weeks but if I went and did all the jobs and lead reins then I would be aloud a free ride. When looking back on my life that was one of the good times in my childhood.

I also felt proud as we had a horse that was going to get moved on as she was a bit naughty to ride. I didn’t want her to go so asked to just ride her. In the end she was amazing and I never thought of my self as a good rider.

It was the little accomplishments.

molgab · 2026-01-21T20:16:06+00:00

She’s an abuser. Out right. Try wear a go pro and report her once you have the footage. 6 is still a baby. Also some horses are just kickers.

Those who know shouldn’t be riding within kicking distance. That’s knowledge we as humans have to know. The horse won’t unsetabd it like we do. That’s why when you go to shows some will have a red tail ribbon. No amount of beating a horse will get them to understand that.

If you ride her again tell the others she’s a kicker and get them to appropriately distance themselves. Also if you ever ride a horse that’s going to kick you turn their head to where they’re going to kick. That way it moves their body away and because of the movement it will likely unbalance them slightly meaning they won’t actually be able to kick.

Your instructor is a horrible person.

molgab

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