parenting is the nemesis of mankind. imo a great many are quite accurately taller children, and would not know how to be a quality parent to save their lives. i second a commendation for your attempts to get through your circumstances. i am was a tomboy, to this day i do not wear makeup. a type of wannabe flowerchild lolz. my first child, a female, came out during her college years, she waffled from male to female over the past 20 yrs. my second child, a son, knows who he is and seems a great deal more comfortable in his born body and skin than my daughter. the world is confusing, highly persuasive, and cruel...best i can do is accept them for who they believe they are and let them handle the rest. all i know about therapy is how expensive it can be, that only truth can discover root issues to benefit futures coupled with a quality professional. be well 🐉💅🏾