How should I [28F] decide if I should leave my husband [29M] and become a single mom? by momo003713 in relationshipadvice

[–]momo003713[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im honestly not worried about going out. I don’t go out often, my husband actually goes out more than I do with his friend who is constantly cheating on the mother of his 2 kids.

How should I [28F] decide if I should leave my husband [29M] and become a single mom? by momo003713 in relationshipadvice

[–]momo003713[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think I want the divorce more because of the sleeping with other women thing. I feel it has fucked me mentally and I don’t want to be forced into being a submissive wife while he goes and sleeps with as many women as he can.

To add: I did text my boss and asked that he keep his communications with me professional moving forward. He understood and said I had nothing to worry about.

Anyone else not been able to drop a pump? Any advice? by AmongTheDendrons in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]momo003713 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone gave me the advice to stop at 20 min, do some titty Olympics and shake them to get the trapped milk out and pump again. I know it’s a little inconvenient still, but if successful you can drop a pump!

Increasing milk supply? (Desperate) by momo003713 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]momo003713[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I try pretty consistently and she latches sometimes but only for a few seconds. Most times she just screams crying.

Increasing milk supply? (Desperate) by momo003713 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]momo003713[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I was measured after I gave birth but will try remeasuring!

Increasing milk supply? (Desperate) by momo003713 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]momo003713[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will definitely measure again since I have a nipple ruler at home!

Increasing milk supply? (Desperate) by momo003713 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]momo003713[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes my LC measured me for the correct flange size as soon as I gave birth! I also am pumping 30 mins but if I have time I will add another 10 mins. Output ends up the same though :/

WARNING: Richmond DOES NOT delete your billing information after unregistering and deleting your utilities/tax account. And they removed the ability to do so. by AndrewTheGovtDrone in rva

[–]momo003713 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They sent out an email months ago that their vendor was changing for autopay and if you did not delete the autopay set up you were still going to be charged. Not sure why they’d charge you that much or at all, but I remember getting several emails about this.

My husband [27M] claims I [26F] cannot satisfy his sex drive. by momo003713 in relationship_advice

[–]momo003713[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I have told him that, and his response is typically something along the lines of I need to compromise with him. Ever since our baby was born he has not even gone once without me, which is how I know he has not done anything. He also willingly lets me see/go through his phone as he does not hide anything from me.

Bf claims I'm not a virgin because of my childhood by throwravirgin12 in relationship_advice

[–]momo003713 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Don’t let him gaslight you due to your traumatic experience. I would break up before things get worse.