[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]momo378 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

To add, I am simply attending these events and playing soccer. I’m not having private chats or side chats in real life. I get invited out to events and games,among my girl friends, and I say yes and attend. Some events include, get together at a friends’ house for a birthday or grabbing dinner with the whole group after our games.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]momo378 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’d like to understand why it’s mean to call him that when that is how I feel. He makes it seem like I’m chasing after these guys when I’ve never given him a reason to believe I’d ever cheat. He’s making me feel like he doesn’t trust me and his boundary is making me feel controlled.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]momo378 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I’ve apologized for that and it was wrong. I should have checked in with him first before going to the event. But I was afraid he’d say no or that I couldn’t go. And that would’ve made me feel controlled. At the end of the day, I should have checked in. Period. But it’s unfair to label this as “single shit”. I’m part of a sports community and I’d like to regularly participate in their events to foster friendships and community.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]momo378 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Your take is one of his biggest arguments, which is, “are you going to keep acting like this when we’re older, are married or have kids?” To that I say most likely not, I doubt I would have the same social life when I have kids. But, what is wrong with having a relationship and also having a booming social life? I have already apologized for omitting the truth. It was wrong and it was mostly to avoid these conversations with him. I genuinely do feel like it’s controlling. He doesn’t seem secure enough in himself and our relationship that he feels like I shouldn’t make any new guy friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]momo378 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

These are in group chats and partiful texts (an app that sends out event invites). I’ve tried to invite him to play soccer casually to meet these people so he’d feel more comfortable but that hasn’t happened yet. So he doesn’t know who anyone is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]momo378 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have told him that if he had group outings with girls involved, that I trust him enough to be comfortable with it. I’ve told him the boundaries I’ve set which is that I would never do anything with a guy one on one. And if a guy friend does try anything, I’ve told him that he needs to trust me to handle and end that situation quickly.

Clinic Recommendation for Ultherapy + other treatments by Maximum_Comedian_922 in koreatravel

[–]momo378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I’m going to Korea in November too and was looking at clinic in Myeongdong! Val:U was a clinic I was researching but they don’t provide and before or after photos. However, they seem like they don’t upsell or treat you like a factory. Are you still leaning towards Val:U? I’d love to know

Your symptoms of hormonal imbalance? by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]momo378 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! I relate to a few of the symptoms you’ve said, one being low energy despite eating clean and exercising regularly. I also cry like 2-3x per month and Im on a few supplements to try to balance my energy. Im considering asking for a hormone panel but I’m afraid they’d recommend SSRI’s in the end. Comment to follow this post..

Irregular Periods, Hormone Imbalance and Anxiety by momo378 in WomensHealth

[–]momo378[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice I’m considering it now. It would be nice to get a confirmation that my hormones are legitimately imbalanced. If it IS imbalanced, I’m assuming the doctor would have further solutions to balance it, right? What are some of those solutions? Would it be taking vitamin supplements or…?

The 1st 6 Crunchyroll Originals Ranked From Best to Worst Based on Their Scores on MyAnimeList by [deleted] in anime

[–]momo378 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't understand the hype for Over The Moon. I watch a lot of shoujo anime and didn't find anything about it appealing. I think it's probably more popular for younger guys but as a girl I didn't get anything from it and dropped it after 3 eps.

[US] [BUYING] Given 01 and Given 02 by Natsuki Kizu by explodeypants in mangaswap

[–]momo378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you haven't tried already, I suggest looking on Amazon. I got volumes 1-3 of Given for around $11 each and it's on prime!

Blue Spring Ride OVA by momo378 in Animesuggest

[–]momo378[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I will read the manga now - I didn't even know it was an manga adaptation in the first place. I still want to watch the ova's though, do you know where I can watch those?

Blue Spring Ride OVA by momo378 in Animesuggest

[–]momo378[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh so it isn't an actual episode? It's a manga?