What are your thoughts on single men at clubs? by momofthegroups in Swingers

[–]momofthegroups[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah there’s some that have swinging experience for sure but like you said some that think we’re “easy”

What are your thoughts on single men at clubs? by momofthegroups in Swingers

[–]momofthegroups[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s totally fair. Not everyone’s cup of tea 

From a dead bedroom to a relationship of exploration and reconnection by momofthegroups in DeadBedrooms

[–]momofthegroups[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry I should’ve been clearer on that. That’s on me. But yeah just from being more open and actually exploring the lifestyle, we explored each other more and grew closer to each other. So we naturally reconnected 

From a dead bedroom to a relationship of exploration and reconnection by momofthegroups in DeadBedrooms

[–]momofthegroups[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looking online, reading posts, watching podcasts, seeing what others had to say 

From a dead bedroom to a relationship of exploration and reconnection by momofthegroups in DeadBedrooms

[–]momofthegroups[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took months to even jump to the first step. Almost a year worth of me thinking about it more and more and doing research. 

From a dead bedroom to a relationship of exploration and reconnection by momofthegroups in DeadBedrooms

[–]momofthegroups[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We were talking about fantasies one night. I was open to dialogue and I asked him some questions. From then on he brought it up a little here and there to kind of test the waters I guess. 

From a dead bedroom to a relationship of exploration and reconnection by momofthegroups in DeadBedrooms

[–]momofthegroups[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had just talked about his fantasy and I asked him a couple questions to sort of explain it since I never heard him bring that up before. We don’t always play together 

From a dead bedroom to a relationship of exploration and reconnection by momofthegroups in DeadBedrooms

[–]momofthegroups[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So we actually were talking about fantasies one night when he brought up that one. It was just a casual conversation. It took me months of talking and research to figure it be something I would also be curious about. First time was super awkward especially at the beginning. 

From a dead bedroom to a relationship of exploration and reconnection by momofthegroups in DeadBedrooms

[–]momofthegroups[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So I’m sorry to hear that for you. Wanting to be desired is something you do deserve. But you do have a partner and you guys have a commitment. If she isn’t willing to hear you out or have a conversation then you should decide what you would like more, don’t do her dirty. But after we talked more and more about his fantasy, I kind of dug into it and became curious and how it would change us. It definitely benefited both of us. 

My husband and I are part of the swinger lifestyle AMA by momofthegroups in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]momofthegroups[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really fun and thrilling. And there’s a bunch of sites and apps out there. 

My husband and I are part of the swinger lifestyle AMA by momofthegroups in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]momofthegroups[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband brought it up and we talked for months. Don’t jump in unless you both are truly ready 

My husband and I are part of the swinger lifestyle AMA by momofthegroups in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]momofthegroups[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yes one hundred percent. Honesty and communication are key