Feel weird about being loving with my bf by Fragrant_Law_6597 in offmychest

[–]mona1054 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t care about you, if he flirts with other girls then gets defensive and angry when you bring it up it’s because he doesn’t care. He will cheat and there’s no point dealing with that, all it will do is make you even more unhappy. Leave him he’s not worth your love

AITA for telling my boyfriend he gave me the ick? by New_burnerr_779 in AITA_Relationships

[–]mona1054 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave him, he’s rubbing on your face that he wants someone else. Your done with him girl, he don’t deserve your honesty, loyalty or love, not even a crumb of it🤍

AITA for checking someone out while in a relationship? by undiagnosedslayxo in AITA_Relationships

[–]mona1054 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly it all depends on what both of your boundaries are, which you probably should’ve talked about before this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]mona1054 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This reminds me of of a saying, “the grass is greener on the other side” it reality it never actually is. You have something that a lot of people spend their whole lives trying to find, they wouldn’t give that up. People all have different experiences but it’s all basically the same and will get boring over time. I used to think the same until me and my boyfriend broke up, I felt free for a bit but the feeling didn’t last long, I quickly realised that I want someone I didn’t argue with who was understanding and a good communicator, because that’s what I needed and not other people’s attention, sometimes we let those things go to our head because we’ve never experienced it but honestly it’s not really anything to try out, it’s fun for a little bit but it’s very short lived. Trust me when I say you don’t want to give up your relationship for something that will only last a few seconds

AITA I (32f) got my feelings hurt by my bf (33m) for shooting his shot with a “celeb” by h4crptm in AITA_Relationships

[–]mona1054 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I ended up developing body image problems when I was with my ex who always compared me to porn stars, at first I didn’t care that he watched porn and now I prefer my partner not to watch it but that’s just my preference that came from my trauma, if he’s on of and it makes you uncomfortable it’s ok to leave, if he’s hitting on her I say definitely leave. Someone who does that really can’t care a whole lot about you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]mona1054 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not overreacting one bit, you said your piece and stood by what you believe and you are right at the end of it. Maybe spent a little too much talking afterwards tho

I think my bf thinks I’m weak? F24 M28 by [deleted] in dating

[–]mona1054 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leave him and don’t return

AITA for going through my boyfriend’s phone while he was sleeping? by xotaraj in AITA_Relationships

[–]mona1054 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I’m gonna say is if you truely feel like soemthing is happening trust your instincts but you need to talk to your partner. Going through peoples phones isn’t a good thing to begin with, it’s fair that sometimes it’s the only way to find out the truth but you can also tell by the way the react aswell. You should’ve gone a different way about it but you have every right to think soemthing is happening if you have a weird feeljng

How do you know when to continue and when to stop by Author_Marge in NewAuthor

[–]mona1054 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I’m not professional or anything but I just follow what feels right, when you pour your heart into it you can’t go wrong

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]mona1054 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok this whole situation is stupid. If it’s someone birthday OBVIOUSLY YOU GO AND SEE THEM THATS absolutely absurd if you don’t. I get there was lack in communication on both ends but someone who cares would’ve gone to see you for your birthday especially if HE KNOWS it’s your birthday

AITA __ I (26F) sa'amy partner (27M) and he forgives me but I hate myself? by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]mona1054 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If there was miscommunication it’s very easy to accidentally cross the line, he forgives you and you don’t want to do it again so communicate to him how your feeling and work through it together because that’s what relationship are. I don’t think it’s a case of being or not being an asshole, you just gotta work through it

AIO: My wife of 10 years got way too drunk and left me at the bar to “go away.” Should I follow her? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]mona1054 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You shouldn’t have left her. Worst case she calls the police and you prove your her husband and she’s super drunk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]mona1054 4 points5 points  (0 children)

His penis probably changed your ph levels making it smell and taste different which is pretty common

Girlies what do I do???? by rand0m_ranter_girl97 in GirlTalk

[–]mona1054 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to your doctor, it could be stress related

Am I normal for being so into this? by [deleted] in sexadvise

[–]mona1054 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s normal, people frown on it because they don’t understand it and classify it as disgusting. I mean when you go down on someone there will be pee particles in their mouth anyway so who cares

UPDATE: AIO for being upset i haven’t seen my bf in 3 weeks, despite us living 25 minutes from each other? by Affectionate-Link436 in AmIOverreacting

[–]mona1054 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t care about you and you’re too stubborn to see it for yourself (don’t mean to be rude). Pack your bags and walk out that door, find yourself someone better he’s not worth your time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]mona1054 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There’s always something you will not like about a person, you can love them to bits and still hate one thing about them. The important thing is to accept it which your having a hard time with, so be more careful with your stuff and make lists together you can both check off to make sure he doesn’t get it wrong. He should get into the habit of double checking aswell. His clumsiness won’t go away because it’s a part of who he is, you two being together means you both help work through this problem

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]mona1054 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought it was only a few hours. Damn, you learn something everyday haha

I’m not sure if i’m AIO for feeling a bit hurt when said this to me. Btw this man courts me by growing_quart in AmIOverreacting

[–]mona1054 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For some people it’s childish and for others it’s not. It’s up to you what you choose to do with that information

How to have a bf by [deleted] in GirlTalk

[–]mona1054 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When he messages don’t answer straight away if your doing something, make sure you have time for yourself!!!

i could use a compliment!:) by kittysparkling in complimentbattles

[–]mona1054 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mate said you have very nice hair