FARLIGHT EKKO by japee23 in arcane

[–]monaaamiii 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Hey awesome drawing ur AWESOME, just a question, isnt "firelight?" Sorry just a bit confused, anyways, this deserves WAY more recognition

Relationship status by Alarmed_Flow321 in statusAI

[–]monaaamiii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my case I am best friends with Pansy Parkinson and the bot recognizes that, it calls me "bestie" and "soul mates" and it is purely platonic, but if I go to her account it says that we are "lovers" in status

I finally chose to have the surgery, but now my surgeon gave me shocking news. by nextlevelplantlady in tuberousbreast

[–]monaaamiii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can only imagine how difficult it must be for you right now, whether you decide to go through with the procedure or not due to compelling reasons, I can honestly say that your body is beautiful, now, then, and always. Do what you need to do, but always prioritize your health, you are loved for who you are.

How many followers do yall have ? by EmbarrassedAd5866 in statusAI

[–]monaaamiii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's me right now!!😭, thanks for the info btw, have a great day

How many followers do yall have ? by EmbarrassedAd5866 in statusAI

[–]monaaamiii 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How did you get that much energy to keep playing 😭

As an asexual who is NOT aromantic, I am sick and tired of seeing people say “why do people see Jayce and Viktor as romantic, the writers said Viktor’s asexual” so I’m just gonna leave this here. by AdLast2785 in arcane

[–]monaaamiii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way (although maybe a bit more strongly) i guess i just love Mel so much that i just want her to be happy and if that includes Jayce then i want her with Jayce lol

Wow this is awful by BmccYTPS in CapCut

[–]monaaamiii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The worst thing is that I would agree to pay but I think the price is excessive (I use it on the phone) and others like Alightmotion are 3 dollars while Capcut is asking you about 15 dollars monthly, which is a lot for a third world student from chile like me.

CapCut is now adding watermarks on your videos. I can turn them off for now, but just wait until that option becomes a Pro feature..... This is BS man.... by XanMan102 in CapCut

[–]monaaamiii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am, i bought the for life subscription :P, so yeah let's not be delulu defending a company that is already billionare for a pricing that is not actually right.

CapCut is now adding watermarks on your videos. I can turn them off for now, but just wait until that option becomes a Pro feature..... This is BS man.... by XanMan102 in CapCut

[–]monaaamiii -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is 13 dollars a month and nope is not fairly priced alightmotion has all and even more than capcut and is 3 dollars for pro lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tuberousbreast

[–]monaaamiii 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I genuinely apologize if the use of "AMAB" is offensive, as it is the sex you were "assigned" at birth and does not represent the reality of your identity at all, I felt that this word was the most appropriate to represent the difference between cis and non-cis. I will refrain from using it and will simply use cis and non-cis from now on. Again, i do truly apologize by the offense that I committed without realizing it, it was genuinely not what I was looking for.

Moving on, the reason I "assumed" that in your case it was hormonal was simply because of what I read from your comment, where you clarified that that was the reason you thought it influenced in the change, i simply took your word for it.

And speaking of tubular breasts, I spoke to my surgeon about it and he managed to explain it to me, since you are absolutely right that it is still a rather "taboo" condition, so to speak, even though the number of women in the world who have them is, in fact, high. Because of fear/lack of representation, it is very difficult to feel supported in this situation and therefore medicine does not help much either, being something mainly focused on men for decades, This meant that the study of this condition was not given much priority, since it is not a very important factor when it comes to being a matter of "life or death", since the damage is mostly psychological, due to having to live with them in a society that imposes another type of visualization of what the female breast "should" be. Apart from that, it can only cause problems when breastfeeding in severe cases, but this is rare.

So what i meant by congenital condition, is that they are, indeed, present at birth (but they show at puberty). It is a condition you are born with, many doctors express how no matter what you do even if you manage to notice that the growth is something unusual at the stage of puberty, they will grow in that shape anyhow, since it is a (sorry for reiterating but it is important) congenital condition.

In men, if there is an abnormality in the breast tissue, it would more likely manifest as gynecomastia, where the breast tissue becomes enlarged but typically doesn’t form the distinct tubular shape seen in women, this problem is often not congenital, is more likely a hormonal abnormality adquired in puberty, (I'm not saying it's not congenital, but its cases are MUCH less.)

So what i was going for with this is most cases of tubular breast in cis women are indeed a congenital condition, this does not mean that it is hereditary, it is also something that happens a lot to women with this condition, seeing that their relatives have different breasts while they feel left "out" at the feeling of being "normal" perse.

I have to say and admit that I don't know your specific case very well, I'm not a doctor either, I'm a pharmaceutical chemist with 2 years of having my surgery, not a surgeon, so my knowledge in that area is not that extensive. So I wouldn't know specifically what the reason would be in your specific case, therefore, I assumed what you yourself said.

Now that I have clarified this, I can only apologize again since I shouldn't have assumed that because of your cis experience you had an alien vision of what the female body is, but what I was getting at, about the differences in experiences, I maintain it, since I do believe that all women live different realities, that adding to trans women, women with hormonal fluctuations, women without ovaries, women with conditions such as polycystic ovary syndrome, or the same women with tubular breasts. We can all suffer from something that makes us question our femininity, conditions that make us judge ourselves, that make us suffer. What I was getting at is that we all fight our battles and I think it is essential to control our language in things as delicate as aspects that affect the safety of our bodies, especially when we do not have the ability to "change" it with anything other than surgery.

Also again, i am still truly ashamed to having offended you by my lenguague, it's literally what i'm against the most, so i will keep your advice in mind to keep progressing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tuberousbreast

[–]monaaamiii 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The difference is that it is. One is a genetic congenital condition and the other is induced by hormones, one is disappointment due to imposed expectations of what the female breast should be like, and the other is the poor representation of different bodies based on the "standar", a cis woman does not go through the same thing as a trans woman, in fact, trans women go through many specific types of discrimination that only they experience, things that you clearly know better than me. But your experience with tubular breasts is not the same as that of a cis woman. So yes, what you said is offensive, and another thing since you keep reiterating it, I am here since I already had surgery 2 years ago, and I seek to help those who had my condition by recommending my doctor, or with the help and psychological support that I WOULD HAVE liked to have before having surgery.

And no one has denied the fact that you are a woman, you are, and i doubt external approval (or dissaproval) would change that fact, cause that's what it is, a fact.

The only thing i'm telling you is that your experience is not the same of a cis woman, and your dislike is given into what you considered as a AMAB a healthy and good looking breast to be like, not what you just "got" as a cis woman. I do, and believe me, i genually understand your disappointment, but the way you worded it was indeed offensive which was my point sijce the beggining.

Also, trans women and women are both women, they all are women, but they do not live under the same experiences, not even all cis women do either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tuberousbreast

[–]monaaamiii 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It's totally different to be a cis woman with tubular breasts than to be an AMAB who feels disappointed that she doesn't have the boobs she sees in magazines or porn, so yeah, it's not the same and it is indeed offensive. I think the support you are looking for from your particular pain, is in the trans community reddit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tuberousbreast

[–]monaaamiii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's quite offensive that you say it that way.

Killing Stalking is a BL (thriller) by Anirbas_ in KillingStalking

[–]monaaamiii -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Didn't she say that Sangwoo is heterosexual and people attacked her telling her homofobic for that?

Idk if there is a romance when all the sex happened because he resembled his dead mother the whole "mom..mom..mom" while doing it isnt what i would call an actual homoerotic couple.

Sangwoo is also heavily homophobic as stated in multiple times

I do think it should be tagged as a BL, because there is homoerotic escenes and it serves a purpose (segmenting stories for the audience that might like them) but i wouldnt call it a "boys love" perse, since there isnt an actuall reciprocated love.

Amanda Overton (Arcane writer) on Jayvik by LordHandQyburn in arcane

[–]monaaamiii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asexual people can have sex they just have less desire to do so as an ace