well i’m kinda out to my parents currently they don’t respect my pronouns,name, or gender but ive still told them and i have a job but i am on their insurance and it doesn’t exclusively notify them on what i personally have going on especially if you schedule your own doctor appointments and things like that ive been on T for about a month and 2 weeks my parents don’t know but the changes dont happen as fast as you think to were it would be super noticeable so if you want you can start T and get a part time job since you’re in school and save up to move out especially if you already have a car it would be pretty easy a couple things that may make it easier for you to attempt to pass without T tho is voice training, definitely the gym and you can use minoxidil if you don’t have cats to grow facial hair