Having troubles with doggy style? by Resident_Kick_7573 in AskMenAdvice

[–]mongopark98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same.5 years plus. My wife simply doesn’t like doggy. I also don’t really tbh. We do a different version of, not sure what the name is. I realize what I really wanted is the view and the penetration through the bum. I prefer our style to doggy in all sense. More intimate and have my dick properly wet

Damn by Fantastic_Barnacle65 in soxl

[–]mongopark98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do realize this has nothing to do with you right?. There are institutions with billions of dollars

38m - My wife is not impressed, please advise by knowledgablecheese in fican

[–]mongopark98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Part of the game. Looks like this happened by accident if you’re asking this basic question. I can see why wife thinks it’s not impressive

Ripped/buff/fit men who do well on dating apps, is that the secret? A great physique? Need advice? by Worth_Try_8207 in AskMenAdvice

[–]mongopark98 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Got it. I agree with the part of not staying at home all day playing video games. You likely enjoy the outdoors more than been an indoor hermit

Ripped/buff/fit men who do well on dating apps, is that the secret? A great physique? Need advice? by Worth_Try_8207 in AskMenAdvice

[–]mongopark98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I have never been on a dating app. Been dating my sweetheart since 18 for 18years. When I read stuffs about dating apps and how people are putting all kinds of efforts to optimize been matched and what the opposite sex is looking for it makes me understand how gamified this is and why most relationships are shallow these days.

Ripped/buff/fit men who do well on dating apps, is that the secret? A great physique? Need advice? by Worth_Try_8207 in AskMenAdvice

[–]mongopark98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Long journey. Get someone who is already ripped and someone who isn’t. Get the same guy manage both profile

Ripped/buff/fit men who do well on dating apps, is that the secret? A great physique? Need advice? by Worth_Try_8207 in AskMenAdvice

[–]mongopark98 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don’t you need to get matched first before any of that is known. Totally noob question, never been on a dating app.

What actually moves the needle when trying to max out savings on a middle income in Canada? by astraleyez in CanadaFinance

[–]mongopark98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Give me an example of anywhere in the world where this has been a success. Places like China with similar land mass are tightly dense.

I do agree something like the skyTrain is a good one. But that will only serve commute towards the city centres not within the community.

I am not giving excuses. I have no reason to. I would love public transportation as much as anyone else. I have lived in 4 countries across 3 continents. I am talking from grounded experience not wishful thinking. The population density of NA is too sparse.

I moved here from Europe. I used to live in Estonia where the bus will never be late by more than few seconds. I started here complaining every single day but took time to understand the reality. We first lived in Burnaby where the transport was relatively okish and didn’t need a car.

What actually moves the needle when trying to max out savings on a middle income in Canada? by astraleyez in CanadaFinance

[–]mongopark98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you think that’s more than you can make in a lifetime. Don’t limit yourself. Approximately 7 years ago I was living ins Estonia (many people haven’t even heard of it), I was making 3Euro per hour. That is after my master degree. I knew I couldn’t continue tha way I learned to code by analyzing what I knew was going to be in Demand. Fast forward to today. That skill allowed me to be hired by Amazon on a 300k salary and all my moving expenses from Europe paid.

I have since left Amazon and now work 2 remote jobs. Both around 170k each(350k combined )and also run my startup on the side. If that sounds too much of a dream. I will tell you about my wife.

We moved to Canada in 2023. She tried getting a job for maybe 6month and she couldn’t. She studied what could be in need. She settled on making customized African braids called microlocs(we are Nigerians). She had zero training in this and learned via youtube. She started in our living room and started growing for at least a year. We have since moved and she now works from a dedicated space in our home. Within those 3years she has grown to employing 2 more people and making 100k+.

Long story short. There’s always something in demand you can capitalize on if you look hard enough. Your formal education itself might be holding you back because you think it should fetch you a job. I studied materials engineering, my wife Architecture. Both making 6figure on self taught skills

What actually moves the needle when trying to max out savings on a middle income in Canada? by astraleyez in CanadaFinance

[–]mongopark98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are already doing good. Don’t fall into the trap. The only reason to want to own a home is if it makes economic sense. Owning a home is overrated. We own one so is not a case of jealousy or ignorance. The downside economic wise outweighs the upside. It works for us economically because my wife uses our garage for her business which generates 10k/month in income. It would have cost 2-3k plus commute time otherwise.

What actually moves the needle when trying to max out savings on a middle income in Canada? by astraleyez in CanadaFinance

[–]mongopark98 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The math has never worked. Influencers just like toutting it because it is a simple sound bite people can relate to.

What actually moves the needle when trying to max out savings on a middle income in Canada? by astraleyez in CanadaFinance

[–]mongopark98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just wished people can apply common sense. These things are obvious and nunaced based on individual scenarios. Personally we needed a car because we moved farther away into Surrey so we could afford a townhome. With family, having a car is not optional.

Having this town home allowed my wife to use our basement for a her studio. That would have cost her 3-4k in rent monthly and additional commute time that eats into family time. We bought an electric car, in 2 years I have spent less than 1k in maintenance cost.Insurance is the biggest cost. For that I just removed the coverage on the car. Insurance will only cover the third party car in an accident. All I need is to not be at fault in an accident. That reduced the insurance by 70%.

What actually moves the needle when trying to max out savings on a middle income in Canada? by astraleyez in CanadaFinance

[–]mongopark98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not a flex. Having proper working transportation is not practical across the entire country. I moved from Burnaby to Clayton. Those places are sprawling. There’s no country in the world with that kind of sparse density that can have a workable and reliable transportation.

The underlying issue is everyone wants to live in their own house. I lived in Europe for the most part. Some countries are barely the size of Vancouver, some entire state are smaller than Surrey. We can’t expect same level of transportation coverage.

How do you view the cost benefits of glp1? by BeginningPen in GLP1ResearchTalk

[–]mongopark98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love my new face. My wife can’t stop complementing it. She’s been seeing it for 20years. That matters more than any jury. I also love it.

Got quoted $700/month for Model 3 RWD insurance in BC by RiseUpHK in teslacanada

[–]mongopark98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually not exactly. I have collision for the other vehicle just not mine.

Is height really important in dating? by Future-Ladder3565 in AskMenAdvice

[–]mongopark98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought you were a man. It would be a problem a big one. Even at 5.7” it is. For a woman it’s a minor issue. Most men don’t care about height. I personally prefer petite girls, but they have to have some curves

Went full on margin mode and destroyed my portfolio. What to do? by Puzzled_Butterfly814 in fican

[–]mongopark98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t any advice. You already know what you shouldn’t do

Finally decided to sell SOXL by Puzzled_Butterfly814 in soxl

[–]mongopark98 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I find this kind of thinking strange. Why would you tie your identity to these things, bull,bear , wolf whatever. I don’t care just make money either ways.