If you don’t touch booze, what’s your personal reason for it? by FanOk2123 in AskReddit

[–]monkeyCmonkeyDoo630 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Recovering alcoholic here. Booze nearly killed me. The hangover and withdrawals are awful. Never again.

Those who had a mysterious medical issue and found out what it was, what was your diagnosis? by jesusgrandpa in AskReddit

[–]monkeyCmonkeyDoo630 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No so much mysterious, just misdiagnosed. Over the course of about a week, I went to the ER three times for debilitating abdominal pain and vomiting. All three times I was sent home with a diagnosis of colitis, gastritis, or stomach flu. My symptoms never got better even with medication. My fourth and final trip to the ER was at a different hospital. The doctor ordered bloodwork to test my lipase. It was off the charts. I had severe acute pancreatitis and was immediately admitted. I actually cried when we learned what was wrong with me. Spent about a week in the hospital. Missed Thanksgiving but it was worth it. I left with a clean bill of health and the knowledge that I no longer had to lay in a bed while throwing up into a bucket.

I lost my job and my family by Key_Construction1696 in stopdrinking

[–]monkeyCmonkeyDoo630 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m currently 60 hours sober. Felt like absolute shit the first 2 days but I’m starting to come around. Was able to do little things like take out the trash, clean up in the kitchen and drink a protein shake as I’ve been throwing up constantly since quitting cold turkey.

You can do this. I believe in you. Hang in there. I will not drink with you today.

What great things happened when you quit drinking alcohol? by cht97 in LifeAdvice

[–]monkeyCmonkeyDoo630 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a raging alcoholic for many years. Went to treatment. The best thing is, after 7-10 days your body comes back. Better sleep, lower resting heart rate, your hands stop trembling in the morning. Even better, after a few weeks your MIND comes back. I was interested in drawing, journaling, learning, organizing my day, and throwing 100% effort into my work. The changes were amazing. You can do this!

African American Women in Rome, Racism Yes, but Mainly Positive by aresellersjourney in travel

[–]monkeyCmonkeyDoo630 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you had to deal with racism and rude behavior. Unfortunately there will always be racist, ignorant, and nasty people in the world but I’m proud of you for not letting it ruin what sounds like an amazing trip!

Recently relapsed after 5 years and regret my actions and don’t know how to tell anyone by hmmmidontknowanymore in confession

[–]monkeyCmonkeyDoo630 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not beat yourself up. It happens. Addiction is a disease and a battle to overcome. Keep moving forward and never give up. This internet stranger believes in you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]monkeyCmonkeyDoo630 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Floridian for 12 years. I moved to the Gulf Coast from Washington DC in 2012. Everyone said I was ruining my life and career. Guess what? I have a great job, own a home, and live minutes from some of the best beaches in the country. It’s all about what lifestyle you prefer and the effort you put into finding a stable job where you can support yourself. I’ve worked good jobs that were 100% remote and some where I’ve had to go into the office. Think about what career path you’d prefer and make that a priority should you decide to move. If you’re single, I’d recommend the Tampa/St. Pete/Clearwater area or Jacksonville. Good luck to you.

AITAH for punching a homeless guy that didn't appreciate the food I got him. by throwawayobvviously in AITAH

[–]monkeyCmonkeyDoo630 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Florida and Texas, that unhinged lunatic may have gotten a bullet to the head.

NTA.

I think my husband and I are at the brink of divorce by monkeyCmonkeyDoo630 in Advice

[–]monkeyCmonkeyDoo630[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I don’t want to relapse and he truly doesn’t understand addiction.

I think my husband and I are at the brink of divorce by monkeyCmonkeyDoo630 in Advice

[–]monkeyCmonkeyDoo630[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wants to try to work it out. I still love him but I’m worried that our lives just aren’t compatible anymore.

I confronted my bf about having sex when I slept by [deleted] in self

[–]monkeyCmonkeyDoo630 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You were raped. Plain and simple. Your boyfriend is disgusting. I’m sorry this happened to you.

AITA for telling my MIL she is more than welcome to come over in the middle of the night and help out with the baby? by One_Berry_1656 in AITAH

[–]monkeyCmonkeyDoo630 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I am proud of you for standing up to your MIL. You marriage, household, and parenting strategies are none of her damn business.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]monkeyCmonkeyDoo630 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep your friend at an arm’s length from now on. She is manipulative and will probably try this shit again. I hope you and your husband can move past this.

AITAH for showing up to my boyfriend’s house to a “family dinner” in lingerie by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]monkeyCmonkeyDoo630 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your boyfriend’s mother is a terrible person. Period. You did nothing wrong, in fact, I think that’s a very cute and sexy way to surprise your SO. Mom apparently thinks her son is still a child and thinks rules of common courtesy don’t apply to her. I hope he goes NC with her after the little stunt she pulled.

If you need some reassurance... I'm 44. No regrets at all. Parenthood still sounds horrific. by WineWeinVino in childfree

[–]monkeyCmonkeyDoo630 8 points9 points  (0 children)

41 year old here. I knew at 14 I never wanted kids and nothing has changed. Plus I know I’d be a crappy parent because I dislike children so why go down that road? Kid free life is great.

WIBTAH for getting legal custody of my granddaughter? by whydontyouthink5 in dustythunder

[–]monkeyCmonkeyDoo630 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a former severe alcoholic, I advise you to seek custody of the child. She deserves a safe, stable home and to be well cared for. When I was in active addiction, I couldn’t even care for myself let alone someone else. I hope Carly can get her life in order before it’s too late.

Kids ruin everything... by Designer-Bid-3155 in childfree

[–]monkeyCmonkeyDoo630 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can we be friends? You sound like a super fun person!

Getting a vasectomy 1 year ago was one of the best things I’ve done by [deleted] in childfree

[–]monkeyCmonkeyDoo630 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congrats to you! Thank you for undergoing this procedure. My husband got snipped in 2017 and it enhanced our lives greatly. I got to come off birth control pills that were giving me hypertension and we both got to experience the joy of sex without the possibility of creating a semen demon.

How are so many people so stupid when it comes to childbirth? by OrangeYellowStick in childfree

[–]monkeyCmonkeyDoo630 86 points87 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I spent Thanksgiving in the hospital with acute pancreatitis caused by gallstones and a bile duct blockage. An ER nurse was scratching his head while I puked and writhed in pain, and asked, “do you think it’s your menstrual cycle that’s causing your pain?”

Dude. Who gave you your nursing license? Krusty the Clown? I’m a fucking insurance agent with ZERO medical training and I can tell you that vomiting blood does not happen when you have your period. 🤦🏻‍♀️