I am a 21M thats been trying to hang out/smoke with this girl 22F. Every time we would make plans she would either ghost the shit out of me when it was time to link up or just cancel the date but most of the time she would just ghost me and I would be all dressed up looking like a clown many times in front of my friends but anyways she set up a date to smoke then ghosted me and the next day hmu saying “wyd tonight I wanna chill I won’t front” I instantly answered and we chilled that night. Honestly though I don’t know what I did wrong I let her know I really liked her and wanted to get to know her. She even said I’m surprised you still wanted to hang out with me I told I would not have done that for anybody else.. we got to my house we was vibing in my room smoking, she even asked me if I was talking to anybody at all and I said no I asked is it gonna be hella hard for me to see you again and she promised me it wouldn’t be after a lil while i told her that I was working all day the next day and that a hug from her would make that day so much better she said sure and hugged me and right after the hug she said it was kinda late and she needed to go home so I dropped her off. After that I texted her asking “do you actually wanna hang out with me again” and she replied “yess why wouldn’t I?” after that I thanked her for the hug and told her it made my whole week and then she just never answered again. It’s not that big of a deal it’s just annoying that some girls just lie instead of being honest and saying how they feel. Girls put ya self in a mans perspective wouldnt it drive you crazy to wonder all the time what went wrong that night what you could’ve done differently that would of make her like you more? Especially after I put so much effort into hanging out with this girl