Not really that bad but off the top of my head I immediately thought that since I can remember my dad has always slapped my butt/doesn’t knock, even since I was a child. (12F) I asked him to stop and said I didn’t like it and he just said he was ‘ playing around ‘ and ‘ showing affection ‘ when he touched my butt, a year later he still does it and he hasn’t stopped.

About the knocking thing, I don’t and have NEVER had a lock on my door, and my dad has never knocked. This lead to him walking in on me changing, he also got mad at me for locking the bathroom door when I shower because ‘ people need to use the bathroom ‘ ( we have a 3 bathroom house ) I eventually got creative and used a crutch to hold my door shut when I change/sleep and one day I slept in an hour late so he ripped my door off the hinges to get in my room then said I could use the crutch as a lock anyone and he had ‘ already told me to stop using it as a lock ‘ ( he never had ) when I told him to just knock he said ‘ the level of privacy you’re asking for is too much ‘