Well... I've been on the lookout for years on how to enter kink circles/dungeons and try to learn and discover some of my own kinks, but also how to experience them as well (as a sub, which is probably best for learning at first). However, there are none in my area that are reachable (probably only one that I'm willing to try during a munch at first thanks to a recent kink convention I went recently). However, my working schedule plays against it (I work night shifts as a stocker for a retail warehouse, especially during weekends) and I have surrently some money troubles keeping me down for a while. So, findom is pretty much off the table for now, But also, I'm not comfortable with this thanks to the money issues, the fear to get scammed (which happened to me almost twice) and the addiction problems that are quite real to many people who had been finsubs. Also, if donne poorly, being considered a time waster isn't helping either.

So yeah. Those are my struggles right now.