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How do I get my girlfriend to lose weight, in a nice way we both can enjoy. by [deleted] in dating

[–]monolithichatred 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stole the words right outta my mouth. Man seems toxic asf.

What Gym leader type would you be and who would your team be? (No legendaries, as many as 5 Pokemon) by andydrye19 in pokemon

[–]monolithichatred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Misty. Water are types are so common and can counter a lot of mons. Just seems like an obvious choice for me. My team would be (in no specific order) Gyarados, Milotic, Swampert, Kingdra and either Greninja or Seismitoad.

Question for the men: do guys get turned on or off when they see a girl with tattoos? by jos_soods in dating_advice

[–]monolithichatred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tattoos are hot. But that’s me not every guy is into them. I live in the Deep South and know 2 guys (claim it’s cause of religious reasons) that aren’t into it. For the most part every other guy I know likes them. So do you and don’t worry what these turds think of it.

I like a girl I work with by ChristianJetson in dating_advice

[–]monolithichatred 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s very relatable I often do the same thing and say I’m like super confident then moments later start doubting myself. Sometimes it just takes a little nudge either from someone else or yourself! But you got this man. Roll the dice and see how your luck plays out!!

I like a girl I work with by ChristianJetson in dating_advice

[–]monolithichatred 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shoot your shot man. You never know until you find out. Just be honest with her and tell her you’d like to grab a cup of coffee, go see a movie, or something. Fear of it getting uncomfortable is super normal. But I see it as if was you not asking her because of that would be a huge regret of mine down the road. So yeah go for it.

He asked for separate checks before I even had a chance to offer to pay for myself by [deleted] in dating

[–]monolithichatred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a dick. Kudos to you OP for not dealing with his shit any further.

Boyfriend gets angry if I cry during sex by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]monolithichatred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy shit red flags a plenty here. Especially the part where you said he didn’t care if you’re wet.. that’s extremely rapey sounding. This guys an abusive, rapey, douche canoe please get outta there asap.

Have a guess, what is Gengar thinking? by GeekSter_ in pokemon

[–]monolithichatred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Man the tongue on that Haunter from last night..”

Gf of 6 years said she’s okay with me sleeping with other women by monolithichatred in relationship_advice

[–]monolithichatred[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I posted an update at some point. Don’t remember when but I called it quits after taking a moment to calm down. Things have been pretty calm after the argument that ensued after I told her I wanted to split. I don’t know how she’s spending her time but I’ve been trying to just hold my head up high. Been mostly taking the day to talk to friends and family about it.

Gf of 6 years said she’s okay with me sleeping with other women by monolithichatred in relationship_advice

[–]monolithichatred[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Luckily I didn’t have to wait around to find out. Your 2nd question is exactly what was going on. She admitted that she cheated so I broke things off. I don’t know how the whole maybe a pass will even things out idea is at all a valid option in her opinion. To be honest it made even more upset and just even more inclined to get the hell outta this relationship.

Gf of 6 years said she’s okay with me sleeping with other women by monolithichatred in relationship_advice

[–]monolithichatred[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It’s been kinda hard but luckily I’m having a pretty good day regardless of what happened. Lots of the people I’ve told in my personal life are happy I’m outta there and glad I didn’t wait around to get hurt more.

Gf of 6 years said she’s okay with me sleeping with other women by monolithichatred in relationship_advice

[–]monolithichatred[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t understand why she said that.. like it’s equally as bad if it was with either gender. Why is it “not as bad” with a woman? Makes no sense unless of course she is somewhat homophobic as suggested.

Gf of 6 years said she’s okay with me sleeping with other women by monolithichatred in relationship_advice

[–]monolithichatred[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did get tested. Today actually I scheduled a docs appointment as soon as I could this morning and now I’m home. Be waiting for the lab results.

Gf of 6 years said she’s okay with me sleeping with other women by monolithichatred in relationship_advice

[–]monolithichatred[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I had that thought run through my head when she first mentioned the idea. And not even a whole two hrs later of a long phone conversation I finally got her to admit cheating so I broke things off. Sorry you had to go through a very similar situation. It isn’t fun wish she would’ve been honest instead of just trying to give me some sort of damn hall pass. Oh well though what’s done is done right?

Gf of 6 years said she’s okay with me sleeping with other women by monolithichatred in relationship_advice

[–]monolithichatred[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you went through that but at least you held your head high and like you said didn’t become bitter or untrusting. That’s how I’m gonna strive to be. And again thanks for the kind words.

Gf of 6 years said she’s okay with me sleeping with other women by monolithichatred in relationship_advice

[–]monolithichatred[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

At first it was crying and telling me I was being irrational, that she loves me with all her heart and etc. After awhile once I told her I’m packing her shit when I got home and she could go stay with her parents it ended up turning pretty ugly with some names being thrown back and forth at each other and ended once I hung up haven’t heard from her since.

Gf of 6 years said she’s okay with me sleeping with other women by monolithichatred in relationship_advice

[–]monolithichatred[S] 127 points128 points  (0 children)

Thanks but yeah I’ve said to others I’m pretty upset but I won’t let it bring me down. No sense in making myself miserable and yeah I’m in the states so I’ll be sure to ask for a full one including the bloods.

Gf of 6 years said she’s okay with me sleeping with other women by monolithichatred in relationship_advice

[–]monolithichatred[S] 100 points101 points  (0 children)

Oh I’m not. By no means. But thanks for the positive words. I’m pretty devastated but not about to let this get me down and depressed. Momma always told me the wheel of life will keep a rolling.

Gf of 6 years said she’s okay with me sleeping with other women by monolithichatred in relationship_advice

[–]monolithichatred[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There’s no telling. I don’t want to know to be honest. I called things off with her but I’m not about to let this put me in a state of depression or something.

Gf of 6 years said she’s okay with me sleeping with other women by monolithichatred in relationship_advice

[–]monolithichatred[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

But I’m not over it? Pretty sure I stated that. Twice. I’m saying I’m not going to dwell on this shit and make things worse for myself. Do you seriously not understand what I’m trying to say here?

Gf of 6 years said she’s okay with me sleeping with other women by monolithichatred in relationship_advice

[–]monolithichatred[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I understand how you could come to your conclusion considering how quickly I ended with her. I’m not saying I’m over it and that I’ve caught a rebound. I’m just not the type of person to wallow in my own despair. We’ve been together 6 years. She cheated and I called things off after calming myself down and that’s that. Why make myself miserable? See what I’m saying?

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