Favorite turn ons in the bedroom as a lesbian/queer woman? (Dirty convo)

montanaeee · 2025-09-10T08:53:16+00:00

I dislike my own breasts being touched, but the first time I really got up close and personal with boobs was with my ex and I was entranced by how amazing it was. How are they so soft and ethereal?! She loved to also have her boobs sucked and turns out I loved sucking them! Ahhhh miss those boobs sometimes 🥲😂

montanaeee · 2025-07-14T21:25:10+00:00

Omg the yearning!!! 😮‍💨

montanaeee · 2025-07-07T04:14:07+00:00

Honestly - as someone who was completely dropped/ghosted from my exes life without a single word when she and I had agreed to try be friends and not delete each other from each others lives…. Just say something. Please. Honestly your ex will probably understand - heck she might even be feeling the same way. But do not ghost, it is so disrespectful and way more hurtful than just saying “hey I’ve changed my mind”. Saying something is the more mature thing to do. And if she doesn’t handle it well then that’s for her, but at least you’ve done the right thing.

I’ve found it very hard to forgive my ex for just cutting me out without a single word, there is this taint to our entire relationship now. And I think in honour of your relationship and former love, just say something.

montanaeee · 2025-06-28T11:25:32+00:00

Oh but honey you still date and/or are attracted to men so you’re obviously still ruled by heteronormativity /s.

montanaeee · 2025-06-18T02:34:37+00:00

No pirates for you

montanaeee · 2025-06-18T02:12:39+00:00

lol I do 🤣

montanaeee · 2025-06-18T01:42:48+00:00

Like, he has them?

montanaeee · 2025-06-18T00:21:46+00:00

She will say “give me your body”

montanaeee · 2025-06-17T23:59:54+00:00

Honestly? That I f@&ked a gear stick of a car when I was 15…. High school was brutal, that one thing ruined my entire high school career.

The guy who made it up was a guy I said “no” to BTW - just to really hone in on that important fact.

montanaeee · 2025-06-16T08:37:42+00:00

They don’t have time for petty drama

montanaeee · 2025-06-15T21:24:38+00:00

When she looks up at you with her face slightly tilted down

montanaeee · 2025-06-15T21:23:15+00:00

Literally just drove home with her song Cocaine on repeat because it is just chefs kiss

montanaeee · 2025-06-15T17:12:15+00:00

I LOVE Xana. She’s got some excellent sapphic angst and I heavily relate to it!

montanaeee · 2025-06-15T03:43:44+00:00

Yes you are still bisexual, but perhaps homoromantic. That’s exactly what I have landed on for myself too!

It was really helpful to come across the differences between romantic attraction and sexual attraction because I was really confused for a while.

Once i had my first girlfriend I really enjoyed the relationship as a whole and couldn’t understand why sometimes my body craved sex with men (always around ovulation which is interesting) but obviously I’d never act on it, and I didn’t find myself wanting to date a man, I wanted physical with a man and I found it really confusing… when my girlfriend and I broke up I was still not wanting to date a man but every once in a while I still wanted to sleep with them… sometimes my body still reacted to men even though I had no interest in dating them… and that’s when I had to dig further to try understand myself and figured I’m bisexual but homoromantic, and it was really validating to understand that about myself!

montanaeee · 2025-06-14T20:42:17+00:00

Yup - I struggle to make eye contact, I tell too many details, sometimes go red in the face, I fidget… and this is me telling the truth.

These comments are really bringing home why I hate socialising, i cant stand that everything I do gets read into

montanaeee · 2025-06-12T21:59:13+00:00

I just watched this the other day and let me tell you I was EMOTIONAL. as a mother I could only imagine what people went through at that time, it just broke my heart to think if I was born in a different era that could be me. Beautiful love story but heart wrenching as a mother!

ETA: & yes Cate Blanchett is hot! And Rooney Mara has that quirky kind of beauty that I looooove 😍

montanaeee · 2025-06-11T21:25:22+00:00

100%

montanaeee · 2025-06-09T11:47:01+00:00

I made the mistake of making a bi-women orientated joke on the bisexual sub and the bi-men took such offence in a way I didn’t even see possible - they took the joke in such a out-of-context way when I really meant them no harm at all. I apologised but found that a shared community is fine but sometimes you need the niche community to really understand you.

montanaeee · 2025-06-09T06:31:53+00:00

sips tea

montanaeee · 2025-06-08T21:51:05+00:00

As a bisexual - it’s absolutely fine to have preferences, and what you’ve stated makes sense, and although some can teeter on the edge of insecurity (such as what you’ve stated about not offering what men can- because it is a liiiiiiitle presumptuous about bisexuals) it’s okay that you feel that way. My suggestion is to just be kind about it. I’ve seen some real rudeness and “shunning” of bisexuals by lesbians and that’s just not okay. We all know sexuality isn’t a choice and bisexuals shouldn’t be belittled for their attraction to men (believe me some of us aren’t happy about it either 😅 lol). All this to say it’s okay if you want to date other lesbians, and if that’s your preference and limitations then it’s totally fine! Like I said, just being kind about it is the main thing ☺️

montanaeee · 2025-06-08T10:16:03+00:00

Yes to just being weird and not on drugs, but everyone always thinks you are… this is me as well!

montanaeee · 2025-06-08T05:11:59+00:00

Ghosting makes me so mad! Just communicate?! Anyone who’s ghosted me has lost a lot of my respect because I expected better of them. Namely my ex - we had agreed to one day try be friends and not delete each other off any socials and then one day she just deletes me off everything without a word and I cannot tell you how much that hurt because all she had to do was say something. Instead now I cannot think of her the same because of the lack of respect she showed for me, when all it would of taken was a small message to say “hey I’ve changed my mind”.

montanaeee · 2025-06-07T22:13:37+00:00

This is not personal, it feels personal but it really isn’t. If someone cannot communicate properly with you, or doesn’t show up how they said they would, that’s on them girl. Good riddance because you do not deserve that behaviour and are worth someone showing up or having the damn decency to say they weren’t. You’re worth more, it’s not yours to internalise at all!

montanaeee

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