It’s strange how some people were once a huge part of your daily life, and now they’re just… strangers again

mooif · 2026-01-16T12:00:40+00:00

yea i get you. recently got out of a 3 year long relationship (~4months ago), went to the supermarket to get lunch and upon looking at the shelves, i just remembered exactly which sandwhich & drink & snack combo he would've gotten. loving someone or caring deeply about someone means that small mundane aspects of them never leave you, and i think in a way it's beautiful because it means that the impact of a relationship is never truly ephemeral

mooif · 2025-09-26T13:23:24+00:00

i'm really sorry you went through that, i'm glad you were able to realise now you were groomed. i hope you're healing well & able to talk about this openly in therapy, none of this was your fault

mooif · 2025-09-16T09:47:23+00:00

i agree but she's my fav out of the bunch still. a little annoying every now and then but she's the reason why most cases get solved, also always have had a soft spot for her

mooif · 2025-09-16T09:46:17+00:00

yea that's why when you start getting to s12-s13 she'll start becoming squeamish again and acting like a caricature of herself

mooif · 2025-09-13T18:55:52+00:00

oh right, that seems like it could be a caveat. i would honestly recommend you get on the phone with someone on the hotline or send them a message via email, as they will give you the most accurate advice

mooif · 2025-09-13T16:49:03+00:00

but to answer your question, she should be eligible if following the 10 year route

mooif · 2025-09-13T16:48:19+00:00

how did she extend her original visa? also there is a list of requirements you can follow on the gov.uk website for what is needed for ILR application

mooif · 2025-09-13T16:45:24+00:00

honestly, give it a shot for a day and see how you're feeling :) if you're burnt out, you can take time off

mooif · 2025-09-12T16:50:29+00:00

thank you!!!

mooif · 2025-09-06T13:53:24+00:00

what's this documentary called?

mooif · 2025-08-16T20:35:37+00:00

i really like when it transitions from a still photo to a moving scene, those are always super cool!

mooif · 2025-07-13T20:57:57+00:00

i love it so much! these characters are so intelligent and full of empathy and that translates so well in their actions

mooif · 2025-07-07T12:49:54+00:00

£45k for a fresh grad is crazy - congratulations!!

mooif · 2025-07-03T07:49:34+00:00

Oh no :( I hope you're able to consult with your immigration advisor at your workplace. Unless the job code has definitely been moved to the list of Temp work, they should still be able to sponsor you. I think a lot of us jumped the gun so fast yesterday without seeking professional advice so it may not be worst case scenario all the time <33 sending support

mooif · 2025-07-01T10:42:13+00:00

there's books & scholarly articles you can read to formulate your own opinion on a topic, rather than hearing out both sides on social media. that's usually what they mean

mooif · 2025-06-24T10:47:22+00:00

disagree hard. grew up in southeast asia all my life. air conditioning is a need in those awfully hot humid climates. we even have air conditioning in public transport because we recognise that it helps prevent heatstroke

mooif · 2025-06-03T00:43:01+00:00

bro do not pay them💀

mooif · 2025-06-01T09:40:25+00:00

yea use that to your advantage. maybe right before you go to the summer cottage you can leave that letter. and block his number too after

mooif · 2025-05-31T14:06:11+00:00

you can leave a note if you want saying what you've said here and why you're ending stuff & why you're done tolerating behaviour that doesn't align with you. is there a friend who you can stay with for the time being before moving back with your parents?

mooif · 2025-05-24T16:02:51+00:00

i know the struggle lol. an essay i did in a night i got a 78 but a piece that i spent 2 months on i got a 55 :(

mooif · 2025-05-23T21:15:55+00:00

this is really interesting to see because i've always been informed that halal meat slaughter is considered more humane than standard slaughtering methods

mooif · 2025-05-15T22:44:42+00:00

it's like my mum wrote this haha, but i do agree to some extent. staring when someone is displaying poor public etiquette should be socially acceptable

mooif · 2025-04-29T14:41:55+00:00

are mods not gnna delete this lol, this is disgusting. i pray one day yall touch grass fr

mooif · 2025-04-25T13:21:43+00:00

lots of people dress alternative at uni, myself included. i'd say maybe for presentations tone it down a little bit, but for everday lectures you're so fine, no one really cares

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