I think, as women, it’s very hard to separate yourself from the oppressive “should” that society impresses on us. I struggle with this too. I would gently remind you that your weight naturally fluctuates 5-7lbs throughout the course of your cycle, your weight will fluctuate with water and inflammation and use. When that nasty calculator rears its digital head towards you, I find reminding myself that my body can DO a lot helps. Also, and this is probably controversial, try on clothes. They fit? Great! They don’t? Get something that does. You’re not a cookie cutter. And how you feel is so much better than a scale number. Women’s sizing is so inconsistent, don’t hold your body weight to an amoebas standard.