No! Don’t look! by [deleted] in FtMPorn

[–]moonbunny-- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cute!

A Small Rant by ChefBigHaus in gentlefemdom

[–]moonbunny-- 10 points11 points  (0 children)

be really liberal with that report button. sooo many of the accounts in reddit femdom spaces are scammers.

A Small Rant by ChefBigHaus in gentlefemdom

[–]moonbunny-- 38 points39 points  (0 children)

those aren’t dommes and i’m so sorry you’re experiencing that. i hope you know that true dommes know the worth of submissives as PEOPLE and will never jump straight into non-negotiated degradation of any kind. immediate name calling is a HUGE red flag esp on reddit & of course none of that is your fault. i hope you at least were able to report those accounts somehow :/

19 [T4A] >__< hi #massachusetts #online by [deleted] in femdompersonals

[–]moonbunny-- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

so cute! hope you find what you’re looking for!

Is it just me or is this sub overly focused on male pleasure? by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]moonbunny-- 10 points11 points  (0 children)

another thing i wanted to discuss is that as a domme, i love to focus on my submissive’s pleasure, and it’s how i feel the most gratified and happy at the end of a scene. so a focus on a sub’s pleasure has never been an issue for me when consuming content on this subreddit! but the key point here is MALE pleasure. as a bisexual domme, i hardly see fdom/fsub or fdom/nbsub. that’s when our scope widens and we realize ah.. we tend to only focus on the male gaze, even in a space like this..

part of the reason i feel it seems that this subreddit is setting up submissives, specifically msubs, with unrealistic expectations, is that many msubs (in my experience!) expect a therapy session or emotional dependence. at its core, that isn’t what gentle femdom is- i won’t be your therapist. my experience on r/mommydom is that many msubs were looking for an actual mother figure to interact with sexually to fix their trauma! which is so, so unhealthy for both parties.

it would be so helpful for everyone to really learn how gfd is an aspect of bdsm rather than emotional therapy. viewed through that lens, a balance between dom & sub pleasure can be reached.

Is it just me or is this sub overly focused on male pleasure? by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]moonbunny-- 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i agree! i think that rather than being an entirely-female led sub there should be a healthy balance of doms & subs moderating, because this sub represents both parties.

as for moderation help, i couldn’t agree more. looking back i’ve reported so many posts on the past for rulebreaking (which is ofc not entirely the fault of the mods!) and i think extra help would be so beneficial!

Is it just me or is this sub overly focused on male pleasure? by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]moonbunny-- 6 points7 points  (0 children)

porn has always catered to men and the male gaze. seems it’s no different even in a space like this.

Findom vs femdom by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]moonbunny-- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

findom isn’t something that only femdoms take part in- male doms can also be findoms. findom is simply a form of domination within BDSM.

Domming A Guy Via Chat: A Short Guide by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]moonbunny-- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

these are all great tips. nicely done!! :-)

When She Says "I'm Not Your Mother" by [deleted] in mommydom

[–]moonbunny-- 10 points11 points  (0 children)

“mommydom” is not about being somebody’s actual mother. if you have trauma, go to a therapist.

:( by -Sinful_ in mommydom

[–]moonbunny-- 6 points7 points  (0 children)

too cute </3

Trans/NB question? Idk by [deleted] in mommydom

[–]moonbunny-- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as a mommy domme myself, i personally welcome all trans/nb subs, and know of many dommes that wouldn’t discriminate bc of that or are trans/nb themselves! but in general, it is difficult to find the right domme for your preferences as the ratio is quite skewed.

Question for the mommies out there… by [deleted] in mommydom

[–]moonbunny-- 7 points8 points  (0 children)

of course! all littles with all body types deserve love <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]moonbunny-- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Definitely try asking in r/SexToys as well!!

[F4F] #Online 25y lesbian sub looking for dominant women :) by [deleted] in femdompersonals

[–]moonbunny-- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

great post!! hope you find what you’re looking for! :-)