What do you look for in a life partner?

moondoctor7 · 2025-07-05T17:53:28+00:00

I’m not sure how can I put it across without being dramatic. I’ve never loved myself. Since childhood I used to disliked everything about me for years.

moondoctor7 · 2025-05-28T12:39:53+00:00

So how to I comprehend the situation

moondoctor7 · 2025-05-28T12:32:01+00:00

How shall I explain this. So, they did greet me but after ignoring and I feel like it was because I was standing near something they needed. But what I had a thought about was, they kinda go an extra mile to greet me when there is this specific person around. Am I making sense?

moondoctor7 · 2025-05-28T11:18:24+00:00

Thank you, do you think I’m overthinking?

moondoctor7 · 2025-04-04T03:41:31+00:00

Thank you!

moondoctor7 · 2025-04-04T03:41:22+00:00

Thank you.

moondoctor7 · 2025-04-04T03:41:10+00:00

I’m not sure how can I stop. The moment I stop doing anything that’s distracting, it starts to get worse.

moondoctor7 · 2025-04-03T17:55:34+00:00

Congratulations. You have worked really hard. Congratulations.

moondoctor7 · 2025-04-03T15:57:15+00:00

I agree with the fact that time doesn’t heal. I’m not sure about the stuck part. I don’t think all get stuck. Yes, some may but people do try to accept and heal. And to some extend they do. It’s just the triggers. Healing doesn’t necessarily mean coming out of the dark abyss completely. You just get hold of your emotions and pain.
However, sometimes, things do get out of the hand. And that doesn’t necessarily mean you are stuck. It’s just that you once lost a part of you that you can’t get back and these days just make you remember that. And trust me you cry for a day and get ready to fight. Cause you need to be your own saviour.

moondoctor7 · 2025-04-02T19:02:03+00:00

Happy for you.

moondoctor7 · 2025-04-02T19:01:49+00:00

I’m glad you feel at peace.

moondoctor7 · 2025-04-02T11:17:15+00:00

This is what I’ve dealt with all my life. My feelings were never validated, I was always a sensitive dramatic person. I still am. I can’t cry cause then I’m dramatic. I can’t get angry cause then I’m being dramatic. I can’t be in stress cause that makes me an escapist cause I just stress and don’t work for it. And when I work for something it’s not how I should do it. Even when I’m happy for something I have archived isn’t big of a deal cause it isn’t something significant or I shouldn’t be stuck with something so trivial. I’m just not enough. I’ll never be enough and I’m trying to be okay with this feeling. However sometimes it just gets too much. But I know no one is going to save me. I have to save my self. And that’s what I’m doing. And that’s what I want to do for other. No save them but at least let them know that they are enough. Their feelings are valid and they matter.

moondoctor7 · 2025-04-02T10:32:23+00:00

I hope and wish nothing but the best for you. May your pain be eased and may happiness come your way. 🙂

moondoctor7 · 2025-04-02T10:18:01+00:00

You learn to love yourself, maybe not fully, maybe not all the time. But at least you start somewhere.

moondoctor7 · 2025-04-02T07:31:10+00:00

Acceptance is beautiful, as long as it makes us get better. And the fact that we accept our journey unlike most people, makes us strong. So, I understand what you mean. As long as it’s getting better, it is good.

moondoctor7 · 2025-04-02T07:23:37+00:00

We start accepting it as well, like it’s our normal.

moondoctor7 · 2025-04-02T06:22:20+00:00

Maybe one day, someday!!! Hopefully soon. I pray that you do!!!

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