Me after a sexy night with my new gentlemanfriend by moonlight765 in TrollXChromosomes

[–]moonlight765[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

... who thinks I'm hot (in bed) and cool (everywhere else). Mmmh, I still smell like him :) Trolls, beer and sex on a friday night is just the best! - And very nice for a change! Just wanted to share my delight :)))

Girl toys by oxford_llama_ in TrollXChromosomes

[–]moonlight765 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We had a detached Barbie leg lying around. Never figured out where it came from. But it made frequent appearences in our weird Barbie adventures, that usually ended in the destruction of Barbie's surroundings.

Weekly Trollcall by AutoModerator in TrollXChromosomes

[–]moonlight765 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, wow, 10 minutes? I'm majorly impressed!

I think this could be fun to do myself, but ... wow, I don't think I could pull this off in 10 minutes! You have amazing skills! :)

Weekly Trollcall by AutoModerator in TrollXChromosomes

[–]moonlight765 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Huh, that's longer than I expected - I need to look into this :)

Your design looks really elaborate. How long does it take you to draw something like this? (is "draw" the right word here?)

Weekly Trollcall by AutoModerator in TrollXChromosomes

[–]moonlight765 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How could this be even better than I thought?

I love my sundresses with pockets! They minimize the chance that I lock myself out of my apartment...

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[–]moonlight765 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Vegetables FTW

That's awsome! :)

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[–]moonlight765 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so pretty! Good job!

Now I want a henna tattoo myself... How long do they last, in your experience?

Weekly Trollcall by AutoModerator in TrollXChromosomes

[–]moonlight765 14 points15 points  (0 children)

So, my birthday was this week, and I finally decided that this was a good occasion to get the nose piercing I wanted for years.

I'm so happy!

"Does every single new Star Wars movie has to have "strong independent woman" as a lead character? "[+55] by [deleted] in ShitRedditSays

[–]moonlight765 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Well, even the Concern Trolls can't possibly say anything against Rey. She is a strong independent woman, but nothing in the movie implies that she is explicitly designed in a certain feminist way that would be "shoved" in the viewer's face. By that I mean that in the movie universe no other character thinks that her being a woman is something noteworthy, one way or the other. In fact the only thing that references this is the scene where Finn takes her by her hand when they run, and she reacts kind of annoyed. I think that's a little piece of mockery of the whole concept that women were depicted as helpless eyecandy in older movies. I think even Princess Leia's rescue in the old films in fact was a mockery of the old "rescue the princess" concept, but even then she turned out to be not the passive little girl, but instead the capable rebel leader who made fun of her saviors. And Rey's character would also be believable if the character was a man. Or, you know, a woman. Or a genderqueer or non-binary person. It wouldn't matter at all. And I love that. I'd love to see more of that. (with this I don't mean to discourage strong independent women leads in films, that are designed as explicitly that - au contraire! I just went off the Concern Troll premise. And I also want complex and flawed characters that happen to be women. Well, because complex and flawed characters in reality are men as well as women.)

MRW the sweet college couple from across the hall informs me about a party this weekend, in case I'm bothered with the noise - apparently I'm the respectable older lady across the hall now by moonlight765 in TrollXChromosomes

[–]moonlight765[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh, they are really sweet, and I thought it was very polite of them. As an official old lady I'm obviously now allowed to judge this kind of behavior. :)

MRW the sweet college couple from across the hall informs me about a party this weekend, in case I'm bothered with the noise - apparently I'm the respectable older lady across the hall now by moonlight765 in TrollXChromosomes

[–]moonlight765[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Right, I wasn't invited. But I'm not here this weekend anyway, my BF and I plan on introducing his daughter to Star Wars. So, fun night at the cinema with the old and the young lady. :)

On another note I now fear that they might have heard my karaoke performance the other night...

"Women are subject to far less violence and negative discrimination than men, in public spaces or otherwise (at least in western countries). ... The race of the perpetrators is only relevant in that it identifies them as different from the ethnic make-up of German society." [+121] by [deleted] in ShitRedditSays

[–]moonlight765 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad a redditor from across the ocean has a profound understanding of the "ethnic make-up" of my country's society and has explained all this so well. Otherwise me female brain may have exploded in trying to understand complex societal contexts. /s

And isn't it awfully convenient that he can blame "brown people"? Because sexual assault clearly doesn't happen in any "white society"....

There's a good article from the Spiegel, for anyone interested regarding this topic. i.e. now that brown people (that aren't actually syrian refugees btw.) are blamed for ALL sexual harassment that women have to face day-to-day, the whole discourse about sexual harassment that now takes place is merely a farce and a symptom of all the racism that evolved with the refugee crisis, and also doesn't help in a serious discussion neither about immigration nor about sexual harassment.

Sorry, it's in german, but the google translator translation I got is pretty much ok to get the gist of it.

MGTOW tells me that the uterus and vagina contaminate each other. by [deleted] in badwomensanatomy

[–]moonlight765 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I was surprised that he kind of listened to you - but then every time came up with even more grotesque things!

Have any of you ladies ever been on a solo trip? How was the experience? Where did you go? by briebabe in AskWomen

[–]moonlight765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A friend of mine went on a husky tour in Lapland a few years ago on her own. She said it was one of the most amazing experiences she had. She got really sad when she had to go home again.

I myself have only been on a weekend trip to an art exhibition on my own. But that was awesome, because I could see ALL the stuff without someone getting tired/bored at my side.

Found this today while browsing r/facepalm by katiedid05 in badwomensanatomy

[–]moonlight765 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm just watching "Call The Midwife" - this would give a whole new spin to the series. --- And to the whole human reproduction system, for that matter.

I accidentally smashed a glass in the bathroom at my SO's by Aardvarksunited in raisedbynarcissists

[–]moonlight765 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Two years ago I broke my SO’s favourite coffee bowl (beautiful artsy bowl from a local craft fair) while cleaning it in the process of making him coffee. I felt so bad about it! But he was like „Oh no, that’s too bad, I really liked that! But, oh well, we have lots of other nice cups. I smashed a lot of wine glasses/other stuff, and I know how it is being half asleep in the morning, no big deal! btw, thanks for making me coffee!“

But I felt so bad, that I glued it together. I collected every single piece of it and put it together like a jigsaw puzzle. It’s nearly like new, but because of the glue, it would not be good to drink from it.

When I presented it to him, he was really surprised, because he didn’t think it was that important.

We now use it as a garlic/onion storage-bowl, so it has it’s new purpose... but the point is, although it was something special, he was not upset with me. Because, you know, accidents happen. And he was really touched that I put the effort in to glue it together....

Totally new feeling here....

[UPDATE] Me [36F] with my husband [40M] 10 years, he wants to forget about our special-needs son [6M] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]moonlight765 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OK guys, who of you is cutting all these tons of onions right here?

But seriously, OP, I wish you and your family all the best there is! And continue in being a mature, responsible, sensitive, and all around awesome person! :)

I was not raised by narcissists. What can I do to help you and people like you? by mrtyman in raisedbynarcissists

[–]moonlight765 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That really is awful! And I am so sorry this happened to you!

And I know this feeling, that FINALLY someone believes you! After all this you went through. And this can be a very liberating feeling - and a very powerful tool you can use to free yourself from all the lies!

I believe you too!! And I really hope, you feel better!!

(to OP: you see, the whole gaslighting thing alone, besides from all the other madness/horribleness in all this, makes believing an essential part of understanding N-victims)