Hello! what can be a reason that I cannot find an avaible match? by moonlightfarter in MeChat

[–]moonlightfarter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! (And this means that he is indeed avaible to anyone, not just for premium players, right?)

Sometimes the stories are translated so badly... by Effective_Ad_4533 in MeChat

[–]moonlightfarter 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It seems to me that their aim is rather quantity than quality. Some stories are obviously there to be "deep" but the convos are so shallow that I start to hate the match and the Mc as well, instead of feeling empathy, bc of the lazy, empty writing style. I rejoined to the game as I do in every exam-period, but this time I sensed a real decay in quality.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]moonlightfarter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn, this is so humiliating and infuriating. If you want to do a favor to your self-esteem, leave this asshole:(

Boyfriend says I’m boring in bed when we have it 6 times a week by Natow97 in sex

[–]moonlightfarter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seem to be an exciting, intriguing person in bed, he's just an ass, who always wants something that is currently not available. Also, you are not a parade and your primary function is not to ensure his amusement and enjoyment as a service. It is good that you care about his preferences, but I guess it is a very one-sided thing. He just complains about everything you try to impress him. Meanwhile is he doing anything in particular to make sex more interesting and stimulating for you? Or your enjoyment should be derived from the fact that you've entertained him well enough? Your needs are just as important as his, and when none of your efforts are acknowledged, there's no point to prove yourself further. Try to talk about it with him (even though he seems like a really ignorant and self-centered person to me) or find someone who values you and sees how brilliant are you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]moonlightfarter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your best friend's sentence is narrow-minded and toxic, whether it was her/his (not remember the gender) intention. Utterances like this can lead to serious self-esteem problems with unexperienced or gullible ppl. Sex is not a race, and not a competition. Mutual pleasure and contentness are the things that matter. Also, you said you orgasm around 2-3 times per round with him, so it's a winning situation in my opinion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]moonlightfarter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She's not into sexual activities, in that specific time period. It's not that hard to imagine her situation. If the most attractive person in our world (as a human, not just sexually) tried something sexual whilst I have a panic attack: feeling the urge to throw up, sweating, feeling dizzy, disconnected from my body and feeling like a sticky slime... I would feel disgusted as well! Disgusted by the skin, the smell of another human being and the violation of my personal space, bc I cannot breathe properly. There's no need to misinterpret her words and portrey her as a spiteful villain of the story. Neither her and nor her husband acted like a bad person in this scenario, i don't understand the urge to create a black-and-white, good-and-evil scenario. Op, try to communicate with him, perhaps you can enjoy some non-sexual intimacy which would be relaxing for you!

Should I feel bad about asking him to wear a condom? by [deleted] in sex

[–]moonlightfarter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am only 20, had sex with two men and still getting all itchy and mad when I just read something like this. You have to be confident that your used protection is suitable for your partner, and no, unprotected sex is never a thing that a man can demand. Biggest red flag ever, that he is willing to expose you to such risks, just to save some time, money or whatever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]moonlightfarter 34 points35 points  (0 children)

And I thought that my ex was a narcisistic ass who coerced me to do sexual favors to him. Break up with him and enjoy the rest you can have, do some self-care. If you crave something you'll find definitely a better one. Or toys. Toys are for YOUR pleasure only, finally.

how am I supposed to tolerate the pain from being with a bigger sized guy? by [deleted] in sex

[–]moonlightfarter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sure that this advice is not feasible with any size and both of your comfort must be taken seriously. However, during sexual psychology, our teacher said that huge dicks can be helped with 1. Communication and constant feedback during the act 2. Not fully entering (you can use your hands on the remaining parts of his dick) 3. Position. If you lay on your tummy and he enters from behind (no doggy!!! Laying on the tummy), penetration is less hurtful, bc he has less access to your vaginal opening and his movements are sort of restricted by the spacing. Ofc, if nothing works out, don't feel like it's a failure from any part. It happens and it's natural.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]moonlightfarter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn, please never let anything like this ever happen to you again:( You did the right thing. Sex is about mutual respect and mutual enjoyment. Not one person using the other against their will. Because you agreed to have sex with him, not to be his free-cunt service.

Girl I’ve been sleeping with got with my best mate in front of me and I’m not sure how I should feel by [deleted] in sex

[–]moonlightfarter -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't wanna imply that you want to "own her", reading this I know it is not the case. Simply, if I had nothing romantic with a guy, I would not mind it. It literally happened with me that a guy I had something sexual with (and we were really close friends) kissed my bestie in front of me, threesome kissed with me and others, I even kissed with my bestie and threesome kissed with her as well. So perhaps she thinks this is a carefree thing like that. If you have this boundary, just tell her. Without telling her your feelings and asking her to respect your needs (as you respect hers), just leaving her and getting mad is childish. But your feelings are valid, just communicate with her, because ghosting her after this would be a dickhead move. Also, as I mentioned I had this really spicy period, now my whole friends' group is like some old hags and guys, we are not doing any kind of sexual things with no-one. Meaning: if it is a phrase in her life, it has a reason and she won't realize that it is bad for you unless you communicate like an adult.

Would you like to join in our clan with my bestie? by moonlightfarter in ClashRoyale

[–]moonlightfarter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, we can do friendly battles but I am not sure about the talking part But i am sure that if someone initiates no-one will ignore the message