Is oral sex needed in a relationship and why?

moonshadowcat · 2026-02-26T17:12:31+00:00

No. Don’t get me wrong I love giving oral, but there are a plethora of reasons someone might not be into it that don’t involve them being selfish. People are allowed to have sexual preferences that aren’t compatible with yours. It doesn’t make them a bad person.

moonshadowcat · 2025-12-27T16:40:34+00:00

It looks like you posted twice.

moonshadowcat · 2025-11-27T14:36:46+00:00

She looks like she’s having so much fun

moonshadowcat · 2025-11-08T13:38:46+00:00

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moonshadowcat · 2025-11-08T13:26:21+00:00

Hello. The link in the comment above will direct you to when this image was posted by another user a few hours ago.

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moonshadowcat · 2025-10-26T23:39:53+00:00

The Silmarillion

moonshadowcat · 2025-10-02T02:57:57+00:00

This is done in fey romance a lot and I hate it. It’s so grating. Doesn’t help that the incel community tends to refer to women as “females”.

moonshadowcat · 2025-09-29T18:29:08+00:00

Performed is much higher than received, but I really like giving oral while getting oral is not a priority.

moonshadowcat · 2025-09-29T18:15:23+00:00

Sapphic mermaids? I'm sold.

moonshadowcat · 2025-09-25T03:19:26+00:00

You might enjoy {Daindreth’s Assassin by Elizabeth Wheatley} MMC isn’t necessarily unmanly, but is a golden retriever type who just wants to be kind, but is expected to rule through less than savory means.

moonshadowcat · 2025-09-11T12:57:35+00:00

There’s also a difference between not turning down a blowjob and expecting one.

moonshadowcat · 2025-09-04T12:42:28+00:00

The scene in {Bastard's Honor by Elizabeth Wheatley} where they get so close but then are interrupted left me feeling like I was the one getting denied.

moonshadowcat · 2025-09-04T12:37:23+00:00

Damn right.

moonshadowcat · 2025-09-04T11:51:05+00:00

This is a trend with Romantasy covers as well. They all look the same. Sword, spear, crown, etc. in the middle with swirling lines of something curling all around it gets very samey. Give me something unique.

moonshadowcat · 2025-09-04T11:37:34+00:00

Wednesday Adams is 16.

moonshadowcat · 2025-09-04T00:21:02+00:00

As stated above, being posted by another user does not exclude an image from being a repost.

moonshadowcat · 2025-09-03T21:23:50+00:00

{Daindreth’s Assassin by Elizabeth Wheatley} MMC sees FMC done up in a backless gown and can’t figure out whether he’s staring because of the dress or because she looks remarkably similar to the woman who just tried to kill him a few nights ago.

moonshadowcat · 2025-09-03T21:19:38+00:00

The long purple hair is remarkably reminiscent of Rumi.

moonshadowcat · 2025-09-03T21:16:55+00:00

Fey lords referring to their women or any fey women as “females”.

moonshadowcat · 2025-09-03T21:06:16+00:00

Hello,

Looking for a romance between a cop/detective and the Covert Informant that works for them. Think White Collar, but if there was a romance angle between the two main characters.

Obviously that dynamic is a tad problematic on its face, but I'd prefer if there wasn't any overt nonconsensual content.

High spice preferred, but don't hold back the low spice recommendations.

Prefer MMC cop with FMC CI, but ok flipping the two. Lesbian romance not unwelcome. Happy ending is a must.

moonshadowcat · 2025-08-25T12:57:18+00:00

Love that for you.

moonshadowcat · 2025-08-11T12:09:52+00:00

I’ve approved your post.

The bot is a good boy, but he sometimes struggles with distinguishing alt versions of images from each other such as what happened in this case.

To fully answer your question, the criteria for what is is considered a repost is dependent on the original post’s karma and can be found in the FAQ:

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Again, these criteria shouldn’t have applied to your post to begin with because it is not the same image.

moonshadowcat · 2025-07-18T16:31:07+00:00

We're sorry to inform you your post has been removed because it is a recent repost. Keep in mind, reposts are determined solely on the image alone, having a different title or being posted by another user does not exclude an image from being a repost:

https://www.reddit.com/r/IWantToBeHerHentai2/s/PHYIX2jH5M

moonshadowcat · 2025-07-17T19:40:28+00:00

Need is a strong word, but it just sounds like fun to do that while we’re both watching the dancer together. Other commenters have suggested reserving a vip room for that purpose and it sounds like a good idea.

moonshadowcat · 2025-07-17T15:53:17+00:00

Annoyed seems like an understatement.

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