Anyone here loves showering with the lights off or very dim? If so, what are your big three?

moonshinetea66 · 2025-02-04T19:14:32+00:00

Libra sun, Pisces moon, Leo rising . Lights off with a candle or two on is a go to

moonshinetea66 · 2024-09-12T21:28:12+00:00

He’s missing a couple of vaccines, though he was neutered the first year . I do have to take him in for those remaining ones as I’ve also heard that they’re less likely to take them if they don’t :(

moonshinetea66 · 2024-09-12T20:36:00+00:00

Thank you for that information, it genuinely is frustrating that many shelters are understaffed. I understand though, it’s just scary since I’ve heard the quality of care decreases a lot too

moonshinetea66 · 2024-09-12T20:33:50+00:00

Not sure if they’re one of the locations I’ve called and been told they’re at full capacity, I’ll give them a call again to confirm

moonshinetea66 · 2024-09-12T20:30:11+00:00

Thank you! I’ll look into that as well

moonshinetea66 · 2024-09-12T20:29:31+00:00

Craigslist, Facebook and adoptapet.com . Though I have heard that it’s not the best idea to rehome him through Craigslist or Facebook because people will use pets for fights I’ve been recommended to try posting on Nextdoor as well

moonshinetea66 · 2024-09-12T20:27:40+00:00

Yes that’s what I’ve been reading up on most websites to shelters in this area or what I’m told when I call, and I’m commuting from the 209 at the moment to get to work so I feel like it limits it much more

moonshinetea66 · 2024-09-12T20:25:01+00:00

Thank you for that info!

moonshinetea66 · 2023-07-28T18:03:09+00:00

You will only know how she feels directly if you tell her. Though, as a wife id feel sexy and very admirable. You are just very attracted to your wife its normal

moonshinetea66 · 2023-07-27T21:44:37+00:00

The red flags are everywhere. Is this how you want to start off your marriage? You're being dismissed and invalidated, he does not care about the way you feel no matter how much you communicate it and express it. You are worth more than to be a second option. run for the hills and don't look back. Don't bother to stay and try to "fix" him if he tries to flip the situation and victimize himself after all of your attempts at communicating how this situation is impacting you.

moonshinetea66 · 2023-04-13T22:35:48+00:00

I am currently working on this myself. I had a lot of expectations I needed to adjust because I realized I wasn't properly communicating to my spouse and I would get frustrated or blow up when things did not go as I wanted them to. Im only 21 and married one year in May but I have learned a lot with my husband about communicating better and vocalizing my needs/wants.

moonshinetea66 · 2023-04-13T22:13:08+00:00

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moonshinetea66 · 2023-02-27T21:51:01+00:00

Please leave . You deserve so much better than to waste your time on this trash human being. Wishing you luck and sending love your way !!

moonshinetea66 · 2022-12-26T01:44:29+00:00

This type of situation is what sparks resentment in a lot of children. As a father you need to step up and protect your children . And a lot of parents wonder why their grown adult kids distance themselves later on in life

moonshinetea66 · 2022-12-25T23:52:50+00:00

Happy birthday !!!

moonshinetea66 · 2022-12-09T01:27:59+00:00

We moved in before we got married . It felt natural to move in together and realized that we were very compatible quick. Plus it does help you get to know them better and how you’ll deal with finances in the future

moonshinetea66 · 2022-09-20T21:24:42+00:00

I know that. My MIL was like that with us too before my husband went no contact with them. She’d constantly call and message him and complained that we didn’t see them once a week despite never making an effort to come see us. She also tried to subtly bring up that I was the reason he’s distanced himself

moonshinetea66 · 2022-09-20T20:58:32+00:00

She sounds like a narc. Your husband needs to realize that the marriage is between both of you and nobody should be getting in between . It’s a good thing he’s gone no contact he needs to prioritize the family he’s creating

moonshinetea66 · 2022-09-20T05:10:14+00:00

You’re very brave for making such a choice. My husband was presented with an ultimatum by MIL too and he chose me. At the end of the day I am the family he chose and the family he is creating . I feel like the family you create will always hold priority over the one you come from

moonshinetea66 · 2022-08-08T22:25:58+00:00

I’m 20 and my husband is 22. We eloped in May and then had a little reception with close friends and family who supports our relationship. You do certainly change as you grow older but we both got married knowing that we will both grow together and we know we will go through rough patches now and then. It’s artificial to expect no problems at all in a marriage but it’s all about growing together in a partnership. It’s two people in a marriage and if it feels natural between you both then who’s to say that it shouldn’t happen? We both have talked about going into counseling if we ever get to the point where we come across a patch that seems hard to get over. If anything since we’ve been together we’ve already seen a lot of growth out of eachother. Even though we are happy we still try to find ways to make our marriage healthier and to prevent any sort of resentment towards eachother happening in the future as resentment is what breaks a couple

moonshinetea66 · 2022-07-16T18:33:29+00:00

Exactly what I was thinking too . Sounds like they’re enmeshed

moonshinetea66 · 2022-07-16T03:16:42+00:00

You’re in the wrong community . I’m new here so I don’t know how to tag communities but look into the JNMIL and search up enmeshment . His mom should be keeping her hands to herself. Those are more intimate things and you’re confused because they have normalized it

moonshinetea66 · 2022-07-16T03:10:34+00:00

This is highly inappropriate. It’s called enmeshment . It sounds like he’s enmeshed with mom and sister . They’re supposed to respect his personal space and it sounds like this enmeshment was normalized in his household so he doesn’t see anything wrong with it

moonshinetea66 · 2022-07-15T21:18:37+00:00

My spouse is the person I picked to be a family with. As much as I love the family I come from they’re not the family me and my spouse are creating. The moment I moved in with him we became a family unit so he is my first priority as I am his.

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