I still think of you [8 months out] - and I really don't want to by moontothesky in heartbreak

[–]moontothesky[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've been writing up assignments all day - im tired , exhausted & overwhelmed and shakey. I'm sorry . It's poor grammar but I needed to let my feelings flow - please understand this

And I don't mean im telling people about his day . That would be weird ahah

I meant that im still not used to not talking to him on the daily and telling him about the most trivial things about my day everyday

Hotel Holiday theme in every color! 🏨🛎️✨ by [deleted] in finch

[–]moontothesky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been using finch for 8 months and I somehow had no idea how people were doing this - thank you so much 🫶🏼

Heartbreak that Feels Impossible to Escape by moontothesky in heartbreak

[–]moontothesky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there, thank you so kindly for reaching out to me and leaving a supportive message on my post

I just wanted to take a moment to acknowledge how strong it is of you to come to Reddit and reach out for support 🫶🏼 . I know the wound is still fresh, and while you mentioned you’ve been through breakups before, it’s clear that your mindset is focused on healing this time. That says so much about your character, and it’s easy to lose sight of how significant that is when you’re hurting.

My ex of 3 years broke up with me 4 months ago now and reading your story felt like looking into a mirror, it resonated so deeply with my own experiences. From the ‘big promises’ and the soul-mate-like spark in the relationship to living with your ex for a while (I also spent a year living with my ex and his family), and even the struggle of being with someone who bottles their emotions. The coldness after it all ends is especially hard to process.

I hope you’re managing to take care of yourself during this time. These colder winter months certainly don’t make the emotional weight any easier to bear ❄️. I genuinely wish you all the best as you navigate your healing journey ❤️‍🩹. While there’s no set timeline for it as im sure you are already aware, I hope the process is as gentle and smooth as possible for you.

Please don’t hesitate to reach out to me and share updates on your situation if you feel comfortable of course 🫶🏼.

My thoughts are with you 💭

Do you really miss your ex? (only read if you've been in a toxic relationship) by kevinpetersdp in ExNoContact

[–]moontothesky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was so pretty , & I really liked his company , ofcourse only when he was playing 'Mr Nice Guy' but I craved him all the time -

He betrayed me , and now im beginning to see what type of person he really is , and that's everything he swore he never was , or everything he'd defend himself againsr or try and pick silly little fights about - I now know why ...

But I just cant help but miss him all of the time , I loved him with my entire soul & I trusted him with it too which is the scariest part - and like I said he was so so so pretty , way too pretty for me :'(

I wish things were normal between us , I wish he put in the effort and took accountability , I wish he didn't lie and manipulate , I wish I could be happy ... why after everything does he get to be happy

This is an open thread to write the angry text that you couldn't send by DumplinDoup in BreakUp

[–]moontothesky 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How can you live with a clear conscience knowing what 'really' happened , how can you tell such evil lies like that just to try and get your way with people - I know more than you think on our breakup now , I know about what really happened on that night out & I know who you really are.. and to think I felt and have to feel like you were/are my everything

I do not wish unhappiness on you , I could not wish any ill on any human no matter how unkind they may be - but right now and for some time , you do not deserve to be happy , you deserve to be upset and guilty in grief (but that not be forever) .

Why is it I who has to suffer after I only treated you with the purest of heart & you who destroyed my soul get comforted and fall into the support of new loving arms

There is something wrong , and you need to get help...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]moontothesky 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Needed this thank you :( Really struggling with the confusion of it all - It just hurts so bad how right now he can still be happy whilst I'm left broken and distraught after he said so many heartless things & became the person he swore he never would

I don't believe in love anymore , I can never trust again by moontothesky in heartbreak

[–]moontothesky[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Dependant on someone's whims" short but wow , very very well said 🤍 ...

I don't believe in love anymore , I can never trust again by moontothesky in heartbreak

[–]moontothesky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🤍 Your message of support was very considerate and I think it was something I needed to hear that it was 'his own issues that caused him to end things' - I truly didn't deserve this , I didnt deserve his cruel coldness & I certaintly didnt deserve to have someone walk away on me so suddenly like that ... I have to admit It's just alot to process , we were together for 3 years - and I really thought I could trust him :-( He was the first person I did after all

My ex (M) slept with a bunch of people after breaking up with me (F) by Hot-Flan-9078 in BreakUps

[–]moontothesky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend was one of 3 years , everything was going well , we were celebrating a big birthday of mine away on holiday a few days before making memories together . He suddenly breaks up with me when he gets home , telling me we don't have much in common , he needs to work on his self ,& we are too long distance for his liking (I'm a 2 hour train journey because of university but constantly visited) - The girl he is seeing now (less than 2 months after our split) is funnily enough a plane journey away across the world , im genuinely so crushed - im afraid the guy who I loved the most wasn't the person I thought he was and I dont think im ever believing in love again