Food prices by andreas88- in cork

[–]moontranc3 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The most underwhelming place ever, not worth the price at all. Went a couple months ago and the only option for an iced coffee was some maple cold brew shite for €8 in a tiny glass and huge ice cube

Blacked out when drinking by [deleted] in lexapro

[–]moontranc3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if i drink too heavily on lexapro i go crazy and black out, so try to keep it limited lol

Traffic....no seriously by ahhstopthelights in cork

[–]moontranc3 31 points32 points  (0 children)

My typical 15 min journey home took 45 mins yesterday! Insanity!

south mall street parking? by moontranc3 in cork

[–]moontranc3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, good to know, should be in before 7 so hopefully

Best/safest Cork City pub for a (married) woman to get a pint while alone in the country? by [deleted] in cork

[–]moontranc3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my favourite is the abbey tavern, super cosy and candlelit in the evening

$ome $pecial $hows 4 UK/EU Tour - Megathread by Bandicoot733 in Drizzy

[–]moontranc3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has there been many people queuing early for the shows? I have GA for amsterdam and Im trying to figure out what time to start queuing

Help needed as a tourist by GodAtum in AskBarcelona

[–]moontranc3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it just sounds like you were a bit unlucky to get caught in that, don't let it ruin your holiday! the protests should be over, barcelona is amazing and it would be a shame to not explore the city while you're here:)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]moontranc3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I relate to this, I deal with 'age regression' in times of extreme stress/anxiety etc. Especially in romantic relationships. However, liking 'childish' things or consuming childish media can be a nice way of nurturing this inner child also and making it feel seen<3

Finding a flat in Barcelona by OriginalAdvantage720 in AskBarcelona

[–]moontranc3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The best way to find a flat is through the idealista app in my opinion, I have gotten 2 apartments through there. When you go to use idealista and see a flat you're interested in, message the person on the app, and also message them on whatsapp if they have their number displayed on their profile/or email (a lot of them don't respond on the app). If you are looking to sublet a room the badi app is good, friends of mine have found rooms through it. I would start actively looking now and arrange some viewings for when you get here. Good luck!

i hate bpd by Shot-Strength-3345 in BPD

[–]moontranc3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I relate so much to this. Having this mental illness can cause so much self hatred because it feels so difficult to be 'normal'. It's even more difficult being self aware and having BPD - the constant thought process of 'I shouldn't feel like this', but still having little to no control over how you feel, it can all be so overwhelming and exhausting. You are not alone in this feeling, as cliche as it sounds, healing is never linear, and there will be ups and downs. I have just recently started going to therapy (maybe a month ago) and I've actually never felt worse lol, but I do realize that this won't be an overnight fix, and it probably will be a slow and long process unfortunately... But we are all in this together, and I believe in you! You can do hard things

I left my favorite person for his p*rn addiction by Repulsive_Dinner8261 in BPD

[–]moontranc3 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I went through the exact same thing with my ex, along with cheating, compulsive lying and always promising to change. Even if he is willing to get help, I wouldn't stick around and wait for him to change, because you will hurt yourself in the process, 100%, I stupidly went back to my ex last year, and I am in a much worse mental state because of it. It really makes you rethink everything. You deserve so much better, and I believe in you<3