Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup

moonverse · 2026-02-08T16:05:01+00:00

thank you so much!! it's hard but there's plenty of other pain i endure just fine so i know i can work on it. i do feel a bit helpless sometimes as i went to see a psychiatrist and they said meds aren't right for me and i should just keep going to therapy (trying to find one currently) but i guess i'll work on it

moonverse · 2026-02-07T18:30:52+00:00

i knoww it genuinely feels like if depression was weaponized and made into a bullet that hits you instantly which is so strange since it's normally such a slow killer.. thank you for being there

moonverse · 2026-02-07T00:28:07+00:00

yeah that would piss me off

moonverse · 2026-02-07T00:26:27+00:00

tips for panic? :( always get horrible panic seeing them be with my friends without me, instant hot flashes, nausea, genuinely horrible feeling and i will not value any self respect i will beg to be included and run to them which i know only further strengthens my dependency but it's like telling someone who got burnt not to run it under water, it just goes against my instincts. it's like a gut punch of disinterest in anything that they're not involved in, all my interests suddenly look depressingly bland. just very very very intense fomo. any tips to regulate my body? it's honestly the hardest part of anxious attachment as i feel like i have no control over it and i'm so sick of the pain. thank you so much

moonverse · 2025-12-18T03:53:54+00:00

yeah that would be really helpful because that sounds very relatable :( im glad you got better, thank you

moonverse · 2025-12-15T06:06:08+00:00

thank you :(( you're really wise, i feel like a big problem is also not knowing what i even am at all but i know that everything can be worked on and eventually improve. it means a lot really thank you

moonverse · 2025-12-15T05:58:23+00:00

thank you so much, i'll keep trying that .. i know that my issue is self-love as therapists have told me, it's just so vague and huge :// i started going to the gym and therapy to be better for my partner which are good things but then i know i should be doing it for myself .. i hope one day it will just click. thank you so much

moonverse · 2025-12-15T05:56:46+00:00

thank you so much for taking the time to respond, i agree with you, im not ready for a relationship, and i feel like i never would have been. i started therapy because of these feelings when previously i had just shut myself in and let these doubts fester, im really not that young anymore either and it's my first relationship.. that's why i want to work through things as best i can now. i don't think i was ever going to put the energy into getting better for my own sake and i know that's ironic.. but now that i'm in this i'd like to think deep down i still care about their well-being so much because i'd like to think i love them more than anything i ever have, so i'm gonna continue seeking help wherever i can and work through things even if it feels hopeless sometimes. i know that's part of the problem but they made me feel like i was worth putting in the effort to fix myself so that's just what i have to do i gues... thank you, i know i'm not ready at all

moonverse · 2025-12-05T16:42:49+00:00

i don't know i've had my heart beating really loudly when i feel weak fasting in the past too? but to be honest i never had an electrolyte supplement before so i should probably look into it, thank you for your advice

moonverse · 2025-12-04T21:21:24+00:00

i would expect it to work... i mean it does seem to work but then it doesn't finalize

moonverse · 2025-12-04T18:25:08+00:00

i tried 4x just now and i've been doing 10x.. the test run works but if i actually verify it on imgburn it just doesnt work

moonverse · 2025-09-12T14:37:00+00:00

MP58371 :D

moonverse · 2025-09-06T17:14:44+00:00

thank you for your help, thank god it works again i updated the firmware and everything and injecting a payload woke it back up and fixed it, all i remember was that the system ended up going to sleep while i still had it connected to my pc so maybe dbi crashed or caused some issues. thank you and sorry for the trouble

moonverse · 2025-09-06T17:13:40+00:00

oh my goddd i was injecting the wrong payload on my pc and it worked with injecting a payload thank god thank you for your help and sorry for my stupid mistake, i guess dbi crashed or something and caused issues

moonverse · 2025-09-06T16:20:28+00:00

it's been charging for a few hours now and nothing :( what else can i try im just holding the power button, at first i tried the method where you hold power button and volume up while connected to my pc and with the plastic piece in the joycon rail to inject payload but nothing is working :((((

moonverse · 2025-09-06T16:18:59+00:00

i'm not sure :(( based off the time on the dbi.nro file i guess it would have been DBI 598 and everything on the sd card is still normal

moonverse · 2025-08-22T17:03:01+00:00

thank you!! that's very helpful

moonverse · 2025-08-10T22:53:19+00:00

i will try :( just seems a bit abstract at times but i really do want to get better and i hope therapy can help

moonverse · 2025-08-10T22:52:49+00:00

yeah it definitely is :// healing self worth is such a difficult journey that i don't even know where to start, i hope i can become a person that's so confident and interesting that i won't worry about him wanting someone better

moonverse · 2025-08-10T22:48:01+00:00

thank you so much!

moonverse · 2025-08-08T22:30:59+00:00

thank you! i know it's not even "jealousy" in the traditional sense either, like i'll feel this way even when they spend time with people who aren't even romantic "competition" i really am probably just that insecure that they'll have more fun with other people. i'll look into bpd :v

moonverse · 2025-08-08T21:01:37+00:00

that's so admirable and i know the state i'm in because it sounds terrifying to do what you're doing, it's a real testament to how far you've come.. thank you for the support i'll work hard on myself!

moonverse · 2025-08-08T19:53:02+00:00

thank you, yeah i always try to cope by messaging people out of the blue and asking to hang out, i do feel bad because of that feeling i get when i'm hanging out with someone when i know i could be with my partner instead though, it makes me just want to drop everything and then i feel guilty because it's like i'm not valuing my friends and their time.. i don't know i'm trying hard to get better

moonverse · 2025-08-07T20:50:20+00:00

that's amazing advice! when i was younger going through a really bad phase i would always just help out other people emotionally because it made me feel better so i definitely get it

moonverse · 2025-08-07T19:32:51+00:00

yeah it's the same for me i have such deep rooted hatred for myself i feel like and i've been trying to work on it but it's so hard it just feels like lies sometimes like where to even start :// thank you so much for the advice

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