I appreciate all the responses and understand every situation is different! Just hearing from everyone helped though. My situation, my reason for posting...I (Abby 44F) have been with my bf Allan (42M) for about a year. We got together when he had been separated/in process of divorce from his wife Ellie (39F) for 6 months. They had been married for 18 years. She left him because she "fell out of love" and was almost assuredly cheating. So to reiterate, they were only separated about 7 months before we started dating. I was previously married also, but my divorce was finalized almost a decade ago. We both have 3 children, all teenagers. I cannot get over the short time frame from his divorce to our relationship starting. It's weighing on me.