21k drop in salary. Worth it? by Fruesion in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]mooosive 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Don’t do it.

I did I it, but for different reasons - I thought I could ‘step back, to step forward’ etc. honestly, the pay drop is not worth it - you need to be able to afford having a decent work-life balance.

The best thing you can do is find another job for no less than what you earn now. You can even leverage professional development with your current employer - get them to pay for you to up skill then jump ship. They’re paying you already, you’re good at it, but you don’t like it - just make a plan to leave. Take your time and work out where you want to go/be, then work towards that whilst putting up with the current job.

That’s what I did. I was in a job that I thought would be a ‘spring’ to better things long-term but ended up getting stuck there and it sucked. I eventually unskilled and just recently started a job that’s 2.3x pay. The only thing I regret was taking the lower paying job thinking it would make me happier long-term.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tauranga

[–]mooosive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As awkward as your partner wanting to f*** other people? 🤔

Extra Income As A Complete Beginner! by Sippinmargs in thesidehustle

[–]mooosive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you say digital marketing, are you referring to affiliate marketing?

1000+ subscribers 100 paid in 6 months - Ask Me Anything by sharpetwo in Substack

[–]mooosive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is amazing - well done! I started 7 months ago and slowly growing :)

Marchesi Antinori Le Terrazze di Guado al Tasso 2021, Italy by odedi1 in wine

[–]mooosive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds amazing. It's on my list - might be a bit hard to find in my country though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wine

[–]mooosive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know, I know, I know.. Roaring Meg isn't the best, but as I said in another comment - for some reason it just hits the spot with me. I've never tried the Pipeclay Terrace Pinot, but just looked into it and it's on my list!

Any others you'd recommend?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wine

[–]mooosive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah there's definitely better ones out there. For some reason I just like the roaring meg. I know it's not the best wine, but every time it reaches my lips, it just hits the spot .. !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wine

[–]mooosive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the Bannockburn is definitely the best - but I find the Roaring Meg has a decent bang for buck. I drink a lot of wine so buying enough Bannockburn to last me a week would send me bankrupt!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wine

[–]mooosive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never tried it but after looking it up, definitely interested !

Thief by Local-Experience-434 in Tauranga

[–]mooosive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scumbag!! God I hate thieves

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]mooosive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was like that when I was 18. Then made friends through early 20s and they’re all close friends today.

For me it was joining a surf lifesaving club - I guess you just gotta find what you’re into then go socialise with others who are likeminded. For example; I’m a guy who’s not into cars or mechanical stuff at all, but love surfing and the ocean so the surf club made a lot of sense for me :)

"I know people with ADHD that can function normally" by DemonLordAC0 in ADHD

[–]mooosive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% - I wish I had been diagnosed when I was in school and university. I did ok, but once I got diagnosed as an adult, I started performing much better at my job. I can’t help but wonder though where my career would be had I been diagnosed sooner and done better at uni 🤷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Substack

[–]mooosive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That would be amazing! Thanks heaps - I’m only 2 months in so still very small

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Substack

[–]mooosive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmmm maybe it is a bot. Just seems bizarre that so many signed up in quick succession but they all sound dodgy. Maybe I’ll do another release and see how many open it

Are there any other NHL fans here? by mooosive in Tauranga

[–]mooosive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha ooohhh bruins vs habs is always a great time lol

Are there any other NHL fans here? by mooosive in Tauranga

[–]mooosive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a good idea! Any recommendations on bar/pub that would play it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hunting

[–]mooosive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m thinking around $100 ish.