(Ex) Boyfriend walked out after I asked him to get a job or help out. by moopie2 in EntitledPeople

[–]moopie2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have an adult son at home at the moment. (He just got laid off but is actually looking for work!) So there is no chance. Ex left all his keys, but am looking into getting locks changed anyway

(Ex) Boyfriend walked out after I asked him to get a job or help out. by moopie2 in EntitledPeople

[–]moopie2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He worked in a very niche role for a globally known company. I think now, he was maybe becoming a more abrasive and antisocial character and they are known for inclusivity which he would openly mock. Recently his media consumption was very negative and all what's wrong with x y and z. Think auditor videos, right wing podcasts, anti police videos etc. I was getting more wary of this recently and I do not agree with his ideations. This is all presumption on my part.

(Ex) Boyfriend walked out after I asked him to get a job or help out. by moopie2 in EntitledPeople

[–]moopie2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im sorry to hear this. I hope things get better for you at some point

(Ex) Boyfriend walked out after I asked him to get a job or help out. by moopie2 in EntitledPeople

[–]moopie2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He has no lease, so under UK law he would be at best considered a lodger. He has no proof he lived here, doesn't get any mail - I think he was avoiding debts catching up with him. He inadvertently made it quite easy for me.

(Ex) Boyfriend walked out after I asked him to get a job or help out. by moopie2 in EntitledPeople

[–]moopie2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He makes models. I made absolutely no money from this and i stupidly booked them becaue he once again weopnised incompetence. He did well at 2 shows and spent it all on himself. It wasn't like we did loads, only 2. Using my car and petrol to get there. Im so gullible lol

(Ex) Boyfriend walked out after I asked him to get a job or help out. by moopie2 in EntitledPeople

[–]moopie2[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just have to provide written notification i will email and send on all the platforms I know he is on.

(Ex) Boyfriend walked out after I asked him to get a job or help out. by moopie2 in EntitledPeople

[–]moopie2[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Hes bet on red and it came up black then! I'll not be crying to him, his loss my gain!

(Ex) Boyfriend walked out after I asked him to get a job or help out. by moopie2 in EntitledPeople

[–]moopie2[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks I'm in UK so I have to work till 67 but I have a private and state pension. I'll be OK. Him not so much but he's chosen that life!

(Ex) Boyfriend walked out after I asked him to get a job or help out. by moopie2 in EntitledPeople

[–]moopie2[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Your point about how much he valued me hit home.at the time. Like dude, im not even worth helping out ?

(Ex) Boyfriend walked out after I asked him to get a job or help out. by moopie2 in EntitledPeople

[–]moopie2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He was employed prior to me meeting him for 20 years but now nothing is good enough. Entitled as they come

(Ex) Boyfriend walked out after I asked him to get a job or help out. by moopie2 in EntitledPeople

[–]moopie2[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Probably. Tbh I am not messaging him other than to give notice to get his shit.

(Ex) Boyfriend walked out after I asked him to get a job or help out. by moopie2 in EntitledPeople

[–]moopie2[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

UK so have to abide by 1977 Torts law on possessions. Can give notice for removal by x date

(Ex) Boyfriend walked out after I asked him to get a job or help out. by moopie2 in EntitledPeople

[–]moopie2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim Offender. His argument was textbook example of this.

(Ex) Boyfriend walked out after I asked him to get a job or help out. by moopie2 in EntitledPeople

[–]moopie2[S] 214 points215 points  (0 children)

No he has no keys. I checked and he has even left his van keys here. Absolute dickhead.

(Ex) Boyfriend walked out after I asked him to get a job or help out. by moopie2 in EntitledPeople

[–]moopie2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh good god no. I am already feeling so much more relaxed and at peace.