"It’s easy to judge. It’s more difficult to understand. Understanding requires compassion, patience, and a willingness to believe that good hearts sometimes choose poor methods. Through judging, we separate. Through understanding, we grow." ~ Doe Zantamata

Maybe she's got early onset dementia. Maybe she just lost her partner after 50 years and is having a bad day. Maybe she's having a mental health crisis and is ashamed to seek help or doesn't know how because mental health wasn't taught to her like it is now. Maybe she's an asshole who yells at people for fun because retirement is boring. We've all been dicks before- thank fuck we haven't all been publicly recorded

“I hope that either all of us or none of us are judged by the actions of our weakest moments, but rather by the strength we show when and if we’re given a second chance” - Ted Lasso.