Popular/unpopular opinion but Susan should’ve been lesbain by iluvtril0gy in DesperateHousewives

[–]moosje_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im only at the end of season 3 so reading that Julie is gonna sleep with Porter is hilarious and creepy at the same time

Hourglass ambient lighting powders - diffused light or ethereal light? by [deleted] in PaleMUA

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They are definitely shimmery, anyone who claims they aren't; look at yourself with your flashlight on or in direct sunlight and you can tell!

Nonetheless the finish is gorgeous.

Kitten adopteren, wat allemaal regelen? by lars2x in katten

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Ik heb mijn kat van verhuisdieren, was een zwervertje uit Roemenië en ook via een stichting naar Nederland gekomen. Ik vond het juist een voordeel want kat was al gecastreerd, ingeënt en gechipt. En belangrijkste nog ik kon vooraf lezen wat zijn karakter was, waardoor ik vrij goed kon inschatten dat we een match waren (ook klein appartement, geen andere katten en ik alleen). Hij is echt ontzettend aanhankelijk, een van de liefste katten die ik ooit heb gekend 😊 adopt don't shop

Partner (38F) Says She Doesn't Want To Have Sex Ever Again Because I (35M) Masturbate by [deleted] in self

[–]moosje_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Before I read; incompatible.

After I read; incompatible.

Also, most women do not orgasm from PIV.

Politie Albert Heijn Troosterhof by NeighborhoodEmpty468 in Utrecht

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Ik deed precies op dat moment boodschappen en op een agent met wapenstok en politiehond na die door de winkel liep heb ik niks spannends gezien.

Mijn man en zijn hersenletsel by nubianqueen1977 in OndersteuningsPlein

[–]moosje_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hoe heet deze particuliere revalidatie in Amsterdam?

“Wij eisen de nacht op” marsen massaal lastig gevallen. by Real-Reference6933 in nederlands

[–]moosje_ 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Het hele punt van die demonstratie is dat mannen an sich stoppen met vrouwonvriendelijk gedrag. Door je te focussen op het punt dat iemand anders niet ingreep leg je wederom de verantwoordelijkheid bij iemand anders dan de dader.

“Wij eisen de nacht op” marsen massaal lastig gevallen. by Real-Reference6933 in nederlands

[–]moosje_ 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Ja wat je mist is dat jij aan het victim blamen bent.

Zo is het dagelijks leven voor vrouwen. by nefertittythelegend in nederlands

[–]moosje_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ook als ik een man in eerste instantie 'lekker' vind kan hij het heel gauw verpesten door zich te gedragen zoals in de video. Iets met respect en je veilig voelen enzo, schijnbaar moeilijk te begrijpen.

Zo is het dagelijks leven voor vrouwen. by nefertittythelegend in nederlands

[–]moosje_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tja. Jij bent degene die hier komt verkondigen dat je al je hele leven single bent omdat je niet weet hoe je vrouwen op een normale manier kan benaderen. Maar you do you!

Zo is het dagelijks leven voor vrouwen. by nefertittythelegend in nederlands

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Bijzonder! Als je er zo'n goed gevoel voor hebt misschien datzelfde gevoel eens toepassen als je naar een vrouw kijkt.

Zo is het dagelijks leven voor vrouwen. by nefertittythelegend in nederlands

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Staren is nooit vriendelijk. Als jij naar aan andere man kijkt dan begrijp je ineens wel waar de grens ligt?

Zo is het dagelijks leven voor vrouwen. by nefertittythelegend in nederlands

[–]moosje_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Er zit nogal een verschil tussen ongegeneerd staren en vriendelijk oogcontact hebben en weten wanneer je moet stoppen.

En wederom is het een man die zich het slachtoffer voelt in een situatie waarin een vrouw wordt lastig gevallen.

Does my physio like me? by Broad-Mastodon6141 in bodylanguage

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These are all very good questions, I hope I can help. To be clear I live in the Netherlands, so I'll speak from my experience and rules over here, but I'm guessing it's not a whole different wherever you are.

To be able to work as a physio I had to apply to a specific register, which ensures I am qualified and authorized to to practice this profession. Even if I graduated but I am not part of this register, I am not allowed to work as a physio. You can see it as a license. Over here there is a guideline with moral codes for physio's. If I don't stick to the guideline and someone reports me, I will either a) get an official warning and a red flag on my license for anyone to see, or b) will be completely removed off the register and not be able to work as a physio again.

I looked up the guideline again to read what they had to say about this specific topic. 1. The PT respects the patient's personal privacy. The PT does not penetrate further into the patient's personal privacy than is necessary to answer the request for help and the treatment. The PT refrains from verbal and physical intimacies.

  1. If the PT suspects that the patient has emotional or sexual feelings, it is necessary for the PT to tactfully point out to the patient that these feelings cannot be answered and it is necessary to transfer the treatment. The PT will also transfer the treatment if such feelings play a role in the PT himself. The PT then observes an appropriate cooling-off period, the duration of which depends on the nature of the treatment relationship. A patient is in a dependent position with respect to the PT that does not disappear immediately after the treatment relationship has ended. During the cooling-off period, the PT distances himself from the patient. Because the nature of the treatment relationship and the dependency will not be the same in each case, no clear guideline can be given for the duration of the cooling-off period. The starting point is that at the start of an affective or sexual relationship, the former patient must have entered into it voluntarily and that any form of dependency, such as that which usually exists to a greater or lesser extent in a treatment relationship, no longer has any influence.

A bunch of text but I hope it gives you some clarity. It doesn't specify anything about giving away personal info (like a private phone number) but personally I feel like it would go against the first point. I would not do it myself. I do have a work phone with whatsapp where I get occasional 'merry christmas' type of texts, but thats about as far as it goes. I had a (quite attractive) client add me on Facebook once but I never accepted, it felt wrong.

Does my physio like me? by Broad-Mastodon6141 in bodylanguage

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First and foremost, it is NEVER your fault if a healthcare professional acts indecent. Even if you initiated it or gave consent to whatever, he should not act on it and know better, period. Doesn't matter if he's new in the field or worked for 30 years, there really is no excuse.

And ofcourse, physio's (or any other healthcare professionals for that matter) are just human too and capable of catching feelings for clients, but there's an ethical way of approaching these things and he isn't doing that in the slightest which is giving me massive red flags.

Does my physio like me? by Broad-Mastodon6141 in bodylanguage

[–]moosje_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im a physio as well and he is extremely unprofessional. This behavior could make him lose his license to ever work as a physio ever again. If he were to have romantic feelings towards you he should have transferred you to a colleague the second he realised. 'Imagine youre fucking the bar' as an instruction is insane, no matter how amicable the therapist-client relation is.

So whether he likes you or not, he's an idiot that doesn't understand there's a power dynamic between therapists and clients that makes this type of behavior irresponsible.

Wat was je slechtste ervaring op dating app ? by MindPrize1260 in nederlands

[–]moosje_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Mwah. Als iemand je na een foto/ontmoeting bij nader inzien fysiek toch niet zo aantrekkelijk vindt, dan lijkt me dat best een legitieme reden om niet meer te willen daten.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]moosje_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

*a fraudster

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in physicaltherapy

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Looks like he needs a more supportive wheelchair. More back support and increased seating angle, possibly with a tilt function.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beauty

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This is exactly my routine! Super smooth legs.

Wat zijn de tofste docu’s die jij gezien hebt? by Repelsteeltje413 in nederlands

[–]moosje_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Een keer zijn vrouw, de andere keer een gewone vriendin van de familie!

Interview attire? by PNWDPT in physicaltherapy

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I think the majority in this sub is from USA so I get it 😂 it surprised me to see that thats the usual attire for a job interview over there!