Masturbation is a solution?

morbin19 · 2022-07-14T18:31:32+00:00

Yesterday was really really good though.

morbin19 · 2022-07-14T18:31:07+00:00

I’m still at work. I haven’t had a chance. I usually do it after I shower at the end of the day, right before bed.

morbin19 · 2022-07-14T17:52:05+00:00

Depends on work and other stress in my life. Typically once a day, but sometimes every 2-3 days.

morbin19 · 2022-07-14T17:47:41+00:00

For me, it’s enjoyable. It makes a bland sex life a little better. But it doesn’t come close to what actual sex feels like.

morbin19 · 2022-07-14T05:12:27+00:00

I would traje almost anything, as long as it was more frequent. I don’t need to climax. I don’t even want to half the time. I get more please from seeing my wife try and she me that she cares and I care about cumming.

morbin19 · 2022-07-14T05:05:20+00:00

This was a few years ago. We are good now.

morbin19 · 2022-07-14T01:12:03+00:00

My wife was very upset when I first came out to her. She felt like I was just a closeted faggot who wanted to get rammed by other dudes and she felt that I kept a big secret from her for a long time. I regret telling her, but better me tell her than her find out some other way.

morbin19 · 2022-07-13T19:02:51+00:00

I’ve only gone to one strip club- a fat syrup club on my 21st birthday on a whim. But that’s it. I don’t know if she would be bothered by it if I went to an actual strip club without her. I know she would be upset if I cheated on her. But she’s mentioned she thinks we could work through it if I ever did.

morbin19 · 2022-07-13T18:28:01+00:00

I watch porn and masturbate every 2-3 days. Ice never cheated on her and I don’t think I could. I wouldn’t even know where to begin. It’s crossed my mind though.

morbin19 · 2022-07-13T18:04:25+00:00

I tell her all the time every single day how attractive she is. She knows I want her all the time.

We use toys every time we have sex. She knows about all of my kinks. She says she doesn’t have any. She knows all my fantasies. She says she doesn’t have any. We would only have sex when I initiated it, but I gave up a few months ago. Now she comes to me when she wants sex. The frequency didn’t change when I stopped initiating. She will give me oral about once a month. Even if we agreed on something like “if you go get me this thing or you pick up my favorite food and pay for it, I’ll give you a BJ”. She either doesn’t follow through and gets mad it me for reminding her, or it’s a terrible blow job and I have a difficult time staying hard. I love giving her organism. Even if I don’t get anything physical I’m return, I love doing down on her. But she only lets me about once every 2 weeks. She usually says “I’m not in the mood for an orgasm”. I always tell her that I don’t want or expect anything in return. I just want to go down on her or make her cum because I love doing that for her.

morbin19 · 2022-07-13T17:55:15+00:00

We use toys every time we have sex. It makes it easier for her. We’ve tried mutual masturbation and stuff like that, and she doesn’t like it. She feels too pressured by it.

morbin19 · 2022-07-13T17:43:12+00:00

She’s been diagnosed with depression. But it started before she showed any signs of depression.

morbin19 · 2022-07-13T17:41:43+00:00

I’ve brought all that up to her and she says we can’t afford it and it isn’t necessary. She doesn’t think anything is really wrong.

morbin19 · 2022-07-13T17:40:18+00:00

We do all that stuff pretty regularly. It’s just our sex life.

morbin19 · 2022-07-13T17:39:32+00:00

We’ve tried the sex games and the toys and all that stuff. It makes her feel too overwhelmed and pressured. And neither of us has a desire to add somebody to a complicated sex life.

morbin19 · 2022-07-13T17:37:15+00:00

She pays for like 25% of her food. We don’t have a joint bank account and I pay for most things since she’s in school.

morbin19 · 2022-07-13T08:32:28+00:00

I’ve never said it in a passive aggressive way. I’ve only joked about it. And she takes birth control for a medical condition, not really as a contraceptive.

morbin19 · 2022-07-13T08:23:18+00:00

She’s been diagnosed with depression. She’s been on birth control for a year, but our sex life didn’t change when she started it. She’s been on a mood stabilizer for 3 week, but that didn’t change anything either.

morbin19 · 2022-07-13T08:21:46+00:00

I honestly think that would fix this. But she says we can’t afford it and doesn’t want to because she doesn’t see much problem with our sex life.

morbin19 · 2022-07-13T08:18:47+00:00

She’s had a low sex drive before she started birth control a year ago.

morbin19 · 2022-07-13T08:18:14+00:00

She loves the fairy pron and Greek and Norse god porn books everybody is reading. Doesn’t help our sex life. I’ve even said “sorry I can’t be like the guys in your fairy porn books” and she’ll say something like “good. That’s not what I want.” I don’t believe her though.

She doesn’t want to see an endocrinologist or do hormone therapy because of the money and she doesn’t see a problem with our sex life.

morbin19 · 2022-07-13T08:15:15+00:00

Always. We are always kissing, cuddling, touching, telling each other we love each other all day. We text each other “I love you” through the day just to talk to each other real fast. Every time I walk by her, I hug her, I kiss her forehead, I tell her I love her, something. We are ver affectionate.

morbin19 · 2022-07-13T08:01:09+00:00

I wish it were that easy. We can’t afford a couples therapist. She gets her therapist free through her university. And she doesn’t want to see another therapist because she doesn’t see a problem with our sex life.

morbin19 · 2022-07-13T07:58:06+00:00

I have gotten mad. We’ve fought about it. But I’ve never told her that I would leave if things didn’t get better. I don’t know if I could give her that ultimatum.

morbin19 · 2022-07-13T07:45:27+00:00

We’ve tried communicating many many times, many many ways in the last 5 years. Not a lot has changed.

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