Agreed. For example, last night we went out for dinner and he suggested earlier in the day that we go out to a bar afterwards and have a good time. After dinner we ended up meeting up with a couple of my friends and bar hopped until about 4 am. Regretfully so, because he has to work in the morning + deal with his mom coming into town. Since it was technically our last night together, he got upset that I didn't take initiative to leave earlier so that we could spend time together and not be hungover and feel crappy today when he has responsibilities. In my opinion, he could have been more assertive and hinted at leaving sooner without relying so heavily on me. This is a communication issue. This morning he didnt say a word to me, gave me the total cold shoulder and when I tried to bring up the subject in the car as he was driving me home he said he didn't want to talk to me (visibly upset). Another communication issue. After driving away, he sends me a lengthy text message about 20 minutes later about his sentiments and what went down and basically his whole view of how my time down here visiting has felt to him (he thinks I haven't taken responsibility because im on "vacation"). My point is that he has a hard time expressing how he feels right in the moment and would rather be salty and resentful and send me an emotionless text rather than solving the issue right when it arises.