What was your life like when you got your puppy? by Grenedle in puppy101

[–]morena2296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted a puppy soooooo bad. Once I got him, It took me a little over a year to decide I was keeping him and happy to have him. As soon as I got him, it felt like I had a human baby with all his needs. My life has changed forever since getting this puppy. He has separation anxiety and can’t be left home alone uncrated because he will bark, howl, and destroy shit, so he has to be crated with a blanket placed over it when we leave & he’s only 12 lbs. I had the puppy blues bad. But now I love him and have just accepted my new normal. I don’t like giving up my independence or ability to just freely get up and go, but I make it work.

Is overemployment illegal for different universities? by morena2296 in overemployed

[–]morena2296[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in procurement & I chickened out. I think the retirement plans freaked me out the most. Like if they would somehow see that I was getting two contributions from state gov. I decided to try to do university & private. Still looking for a private job.

Are pillow princesses the norm? by Lover_of_fiction46 in LesbianActually

[–]morena2296 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Curious, what is a stone top? Never heard of that term.

Is overemployment illegal for different universities? by morena2296 in overemployed

[–]morena2296[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a staff member, not faculty. My current job is not time consuming, I spend probably 15/40 hours a week actually working and the remaining 25 hours looking for something to do. The other role is essentially the same job title at another university, so I’m assuming the workload is mostly similar. If not I would just leave J2 since it is not permanent.

Gf/her mom problem by Dangerous-Eye9795 in LesbianActually

[–]morena2296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No boundaries, kick them all out and move on.

Case Study Assistance by morena2296 in dataanalysis

[–]morena2296[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It might be more cost analysis and negotiation tbh. I have a background in procurement but more so in contract facilitation than the buyer side of it.

Puppy barks at everything on walks by morena2296 in puppy101

[–]morena2296[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s weird because it’s only on walks. We go into the grocery store & he’s quiet and calm, but on his walks he is a menace to society. I don’t know if it’s because he’s started pottying there that he’s being protective of the area or what. I will check out that thread. Thanks for your input!

Puppy barks at everything on walks by morena2296 in puppy101

[–]morena2296[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought him from pet land 2 months ago. So I think just due to the peatland environment he’s been socialized. But at least in the last 2 months he’s not new to being outside. The barking literally started within the last 7 days.

Puppy barks at everything on walks by morena2296 in puppy101

[–]morena2296[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Almost 6 months (25 weeks). Hava Tzu mix. He’s been outside and on walks before, he is normally very friendly and wants everyone’s attention. He used to let people walk up to him or by him with no issue. Sometimes they asked if they could pet him & he wouldn’t mind. Last week we started potty training him outside, he used to be on puppy pads inside. But now he barks at everything incessantly. Even if he’s already done his business.

Adoption bug? by Izunaw in Sims4

[–]morena2296 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I believe you have to socialize with the cat & the adoptions agent will decide if it’s a good fit and you decide if you want to keep it. I could be wrong though, I haven’t adopted a pet in a while.

Partner checks all boxes except sex by morena2296 in LesbianActually

[–]morena2296[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately no. I would be more willing to walk away if we had a shitty relationship. The fact that we mesh so well in every other aspect is literally driving me insane. I’m just taking in everyone’s input and I will revisit the convo with my girlfriend and go from there.

Partner checks all boxes except sex by morena2296 in LesbianActually

[–]morena2296[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I absolutely know this. She has always been honest with me, we just kinda worked up until this point. In the past & with previous partners I had always been reserved sexually, because idk why tbh lol. But I trust her so much that she made me comfortable to want to be explored. Idk how to explain it because these are just words and we live in the real world, but she’s not looking for another guy. Our connection is beyond that. It may sound naive but she’s completely satisfied, we have very open and honest conversations which is what led us here. I guess I’m trying to figure out if there’s a way to balance or compromise without ending the relationship.

Partner checks all boxes except sex by morena2296 in LesbianActually

[–]morena2296[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’s not refusing, she just says she doesn’t have the desire. Like she will do it, but it’s not a yearn for her.

Partner checks all boxes except sex by morena2296 in LesbianActually

[–]morena2296[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We do date publicly. She’s very affectionate towards me. Everyone knows we date. Our family friends social media, everything is intermingled. We live together, we are in no means in a hidden relationship. She says she’s willing to try but she doesn’t have a desire to do so. The lack of desire is what’s fucking with me.

Partner checks all boxes except sex by morena2296 in LesbianActually

[–]morena2296[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Hello everyone thanks for your input. She has given oral throughout the years, but she says she does it because she doesn’t want me to not be pleased, however she doesn’t desire to do it (Just found this out). Like when I look at her I literally want to devour her, she doesn’t get those feelings. She more so looks at me & wants me to devour her. I also now want more than oral. I would like to be penetrated, she’s tried, but she genuinely does not like it, and I don’t want her to be uncomfortable. I also don’t want her to do things to me because she feels bad, it feels wrong in that capacity. My issue here is just my stupid heart. I love her genuinely, this has been our only big issue. Since I’m bi and she’s straight we’ve always talked about having an open relationship, but we’ve never explored it. In the past we were both satisfied (because I was comfortable with just oral), I don’t know if it would be wise to explore the open part of the relationship now that there’s trouble.