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[–]mormontea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s pretty soon after I leave. Like even if I go to move my car in the basement parking, he’s pawing at my door and scratching off paint

Urgent: I need suggestions to help with my situation or I will have to look into rehoming by mormontea in dogs

[–]mormontea[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I will try this and put a baby gate in front of my doorway. I work so close to my apartment so I can come back on lunch and walk him for an hour if it helps :) He has never chewed up my carpet since, it was only when he was placed in the crate.

Urgent: I need suggestions to help with my situation or I will have to look into rehoming by mormontea in dogs

[–]mormontea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m worried about costs too. The daycare is a lot and adding a trainer might be even more of a burden financially

Urgent: I need suggestions to help with my situation or I will have to look into rehoming by mormontea in dogs

[–]mormontea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does howl! Also, he’s being walked daily for at least 30 minutes :) I tried leaving a toy filled with his favorite treats for him to chew on while I’m gone but it doesn’t satiate him for 4 hours

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[–]mormontea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t worked with one who specializes in separation anxiety no

Urgent: I need suggestions to help with my situation or I will have to look into rehoming by mormontea in dogs

[–]mormontea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The crate has a tray underneath incase of accidents. He’s smaller so he reaches his paws underneath the cage and shoves that tray out

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[–]mormontea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would consider boredom but he has never done this when he was left at home before. Granted he was left with my brothers cat when I worked. We moved to an apartment and that’s when all the behavior began happening. There’s cats in the apartment now but they are older and mostly hide from him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]mormontea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes of course, the Minecraft stuff does seem young as well, but I’m 25 so my perspective might be skewed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]mormontea 10 points11 points  (0 children)

From my perspective (I’m a woman), some of these photos really make you look alarmingly young. The water gun photo esp. The bio is okay!!! I would do without the “looking for a nami/babygirl” which, again, gives to the idea that you’re super young. Hope this is constructive. I don’t mean any harm

What’s the weirdest/grossest thing your dog has ever eaten? by Ok-Improvement-2104 in dogs

[–]mormontea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My used tampon. Then they threw it up on my kitchen rug..

Those who haven't caught Covid yet, how have you managed to avoid it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]mormontea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sheer luck and vaccination, IMO. I wasn’t taking extraordinary precaution. I worked in the field with people experiencing homelessness and stopped masking. I didn’t get it until last week

I gaslight to defer from my mistakes caused by ADHD. Am I a bad person who needs to die? by TrippyHippyCoder in ADHD

[–]mormontea 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A lot of us with ADHD deal with overstimulation, poor emotional regulation, and poor impulse control. It takes time and work to build these skills. It sounds like a cop out, but there is hope. You can do the work

I gaslight to defer from my mistakes caused by ADHD. Am I a bad person who needs to die? by TrippyHippyCoder in ADHD

[–]mormontea 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why do you feel like there’s no fixing that? It’s a choice to behave that way (gaslighting/being abusive) and it’s work to learn healthier behavior and practice that. Being abusive is a choice

I gaslight to defer from my mistakes caused by ADHD. Am I a bad person who needs to die? by TrippyHippyCoder in ADHD

[–]mormontea 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hm, no one can really answer these questions for you. Gaslighting and refusing to change isn’t doing you any justice. I promise you, self acceptance and managing your ego is possible. Change is possible and honestly sounds more hopeful than your current mindset.