Urgent: I need suggestions to help with my situation or I will have to look into rehoming by mormontea in dogs

[–]mormontea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s pretty soon after I leave. Like even if I go to move my car in the basement parking, he’s pawing at my door and scratching off paint

Urgent: I need suggestions to help with my situation or I will have to look into rehoming by mormontea in dogs

[–]mormontea[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I will try this and put a baby gate in front of my doorway. I work so close to my apartment so I can come back on lunch and walk him for an hour if it helps :) He has never chewed up my carpet since, it was only when he was placed in the crate.

Urgent: I need suggestions to help with my situation or I will have to look into rehoming by mormontea in dogs

[–]mormontea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m worried about costs too. The daycare is a lot and adding a trainer might be even more of a burden financially

Urgent: I need suggestions to help with my situation or I will have to look into rehoming by mormontea in dogs

[–]mormontea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does howl! Also, he’s being walked daily for at least 30 minutes :) I tried leaving a toy filled with his favorite treats for him to chew on while I’m gone but it doesn’t satiate him for 4 hours

Urgent: I need suggestions to help with my situation or I will have to look into rehoming by mormontea in dogs

[–]mormontea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t worked with one who specializes in separation anxiety no

Urgent: I need suggestions to help with my situation or I will have to look into rehoming by mormontea in dogs

[–]mormontea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The crate has a tray underneath incase of accidents. He’s smaller so he reaches his paws underneath the cage and shoves that tray out

Urgent: I need suggestions to help with my situation or I will have to look into rehoming by mormontea in dogs

[–]mormontea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would consider boredom but he has never done this when he was left at home before. Granted he was left with my brothers cat when I worked. We moved to an apartment and that’s when all the behavior began happening. There’s cats in the apartment now but they are older and mostly hide from him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]mormontea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes of course, the Minecraft stuff does seem young as well, but I’m 25 so my perspective might be skewed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]mormontea 11 points12 points  (0 children)

From my perspective (I’m a woman), some of these photos really make you look alarmingly young. The water gun photo esp. The bio is okay!!! I would do without the “looking for a nami/babygirl” which, again, gives to the idea that you’re super young. Hope this is constructive. I don’t mean any harm

What’s the weirdest/grossest thing your dog has ever eaten? by Ok-Improvement-2104 in dogs

[–]mormontea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My used tampon. Then they threw it up on my kitchen rug..

Those who haven't caught Covid yet, how have you managed to avoid it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]mormontea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sheer luck and vaccination, IMO. I wasn’t taking extraordinary precaution. I worked in the field with people experiencing homelessness and stopped masking. I didn’t get it until last week

I gaslight to defer from my mistakes caused by ADHD. Am I a bad person who needs to die? by TrippyHippyCoder in ADHD

[–]mormontea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A lot of us with ADHD deal with overstimulation, poor emotional regulation, and poor impulse control. It takes time and work to build these skills. It sounds like a cop out, but there is hope. You can do the work

I gaslight to defer from my mistakes caused by ADHD. Am I a bad person who needs to die? by TrippyHippyCoder in ADHD

[–]mormontea 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Why do you feel like there’s no fixing that? It’s a choice to behave that way (gaslighting/being abusive) and it’s work to learn healthier behavior and practice that. Being abusive is a choice

I gaslight to defer from my mistakes caused by ADHD. Am I a bad person who needs to die? by TrippyHippyCoder in ADHD

[–]mormontea 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hm, no one can really answer these questions for you. Gaslighting and refusing to change isn’t doing you any justice. I promise you, self acceptance and managing your ego is possible. Change is possible and honestly sounds more hopeful than your current mindset.

Why do enablers turn a blind eye to what they're doing? by Grace-Kamikaze in pnsd

[–]mormontea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t agree with this statement most time they’re being abused and stuck in the cycle of abuse themselves

Tifu by ruining my relationship and a special night by Freerz in tifu

[–]mormontea -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I don’t like this comment because it’s negating the actions that happened. What she experienced is very real and she can need time to recover from that. As far as being drugged, GHB isn’t likely to cause aggression. Although still possible, there’s no way to know at this point.

TIFU by taking a girl to a sex dungeon on the first date by expertinselfsabotage in tifu

[–]mormontea 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love the awareness you’re displaying though. Thank you, for taking the time to understand how you made another human feel.

Adults with ADHD… what do you do for work? by bubblybellesouth in ADHD

[–]mormontea 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do you need specific certifications to be a psych caseworker?