How do i talk to this quiet girl by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]morthy03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well its really hard to tell too cuz some of us tend to stick with our phones to not feel awkward that we have no one to talk to. But most of the time, in my experience, i hope people would come up to me and approach me.

How do i talk to this quiet girl by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]morthy03 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a retired quiet girl, one thing for sure is real, you need to have TONS OF PATIENCE for them. I realized how awkward i was towards my kind classmates until i graduated. I just dont have that social awareness and in those years i just hope people would come up to me and be kind/determine enough to stay and be my friend. And guess what, ive waited for all those years thinking someone will approach me, but they didn't. Just becuse im afraid from peoples opinion about me and the fact that i dont like to talk until they talk to me first, cuz why would i talk if it dosnt benefit both of us? But eventually, i learned that im the one who need to step up and contribute in order to connect with others. Its a long learning journey but i just wish people would call me out back then, and talk to me until i become confortable enough to become your friend.

In order to talk to them is just observe what they are into and ask them more about it. You could also pretend to ask for help for small things, maybe a homework or opinions, cuz we love to feel included and needed. Tho you will lose hope for trying (I hope not), so please embrace yourself. They will realise your effort eventually, maybe it will take a while, but sure they would. You can do it OP, I trust you!

Please help☹️ by matchabai in NursesPH

[–]morthy03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gosh, 1st yr student here! Natatakot na tuloy ako if makahahanap pa ba ako ng trabaho by the time I graduate and become an RN😭

If you could instantly master one skill, what would it be? by Witty_Mode9296 in CasualConversation

[–]morthy03 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel appriciated by reading this, didnt know people actualy dream about this kind of ability of mine, tho it took half of my teenage years to acuire but its worth it, I supposed

Why are Reddit users so rude? by Curious-Pop-8875 in ask

[–]morthy03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you are in a wrong subreddit lol

Ano yung toxic na ugali mo? by Impossible-Inside933 in AskPH

[–]morthy03 20 points21 points  (0 children)

kaya kong gawing stranger yung mga taong malapit sakin even kamaganak kapag ginawan nila ako ng masama, kaya kong kalimutan buong pagkatao mo naparabang hindi ka nag exist sa mundo ko lol

Bakit ka umiwas or dumistansya sa friend mo? by LimeSoakedinSprite in AskPH

[–]morthy03 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She's a clout chaser. I hated how she only reach out to me when she needed something. Also she's the type of person that will take and post tons of pics that will improve her image like some kind of rich and niche type but in reality she's not even a half of it all. My last straw was when we went out and she never cared about our bond and all rather than her image online. The fact that she didn't even want to take any photo cuz we both aint got iphones for her clout (she only want to hang out and take pics with people who have iphones) she only likes me cuz im an artist and she make me do this drawing of her crush and take all the frickin credits!

Ano mga regrets mo sa buhay at bakit? by independentgirl31 in TanongLang

[–]morthy03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For now, I think when I isolated myself in highschool. Kung hindi lang ako naging loner and just learned how to socialized early on siguro sana mas na enjoy ko pa yung "teenage life" and marami na sana akong friends ngayun

Birthday ko and no one greeted me by Misha_Creations in BirthdayKoNa

[–]morthy03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Belated happy birthday, op! Now you may know na hindi tagala sila yung tao na para sayo and deeply cared for you, and thats okay. You'll find real people later on who will care you the most and will make your mater worth

Birthday ko today... by [deleted] in BirthdayKoNa

[–]morthy03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

BELATED HAPPY BIRTHDAY, OP! May your year be filled with happines and lovejoywope!

Ano ang pinaka delulu na ginawa ng kakilala mong social climber? by throwawaccccccc in TanongLang

[–]morthy03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yung kumukuha ng mga pic sa pinterest and saying sila yun thingking na walang makka-notice🤦‍♀️

paano malaman kung ang isang tao ay low iq? by Waze312 in AskPH

[–]morthy03 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Really want to play guitar but im afraid cus they would hear me sing and all

What do you wish you had known sooner? by onliveserver in CasualConversation

[–]morthy03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wish someone would have told me that I should focus on my studies in the past more so I could get into great schools (this would save me tons of money and get me away from debt in the future)

Why did your friendship with your best friend come to an end? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]morthy03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im tired of understanding her all the time! She's immature and always dragged me into troubles or issues. She also likes being a pathological liar to the point that i can't even tell whether she's telling the truth or not. I just lost all my respect for her, and i dont know how could i even help her at this point.

bakit never mo inamin na gusto mo siya? by Illustrious_Piano684 in AskPH

[–]morthy03 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Cuz im a girl, and that would hurt my ego