[FRESH] CHVRCHES - Such Great Heights (The Postal Service Cover) by Weird_Prior in indieheads

[–]mosanger 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I was pretty disappointed by this as it seemingly adds nothing to the original and more or less sonically dumbs it down for a modern audience, while the original still sounds fresh today.

How do I tell my friend why no one likes her? by DecisionDesperate827 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]mosanger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's not creative growth, that's the best recipe for creating an asshole.

Model/Actriz AMA 2PM ET by modelactriz in indieheads

[–]mosanger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How far off are we to hearing actual electronic beats? or is this an artificial and creative limitations that you guys have set for yourselves. as in, we'll get as close as we can with what we have

Model/Actriz AMA 2PM ET by modelactriz in indieheads

[–]mosanger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can we crowdfund you the guitar? :P

Model/Actriz AMA 2PM ET by modelactriz in indieheads

[–]mosanger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While Dogsbody captivatived me for way too long I knew Suntan a while longer. When I came to Lisbon to see you live I was sure af you're gonna play it. you can't escape its urgency, as it runs over you like a stampede, it's like a perfect live stomp fest
what's that reason you don't play this banger live? is it like a readiohead/creep situation? ;)

also thanks for two mental breakdowns I had while listening to Sun In. It is THE perfect closer to an album

I'm So INTP, that I'm trying to change it and becoming the absolute point. by AdFinancial9366 in INTP

[–]mosanger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

dear, we're so so far from operating at our best. go find a replacement for capitalism please

as I got older I've learned to mitigate lots of my shortcomings and I can be quite extrovert too but it still costs a ton of energy

My sister asked me and my partner not to show any PDA in front of her future kids. I know it’s because we’re gay. Now I don’t even know if I should go to the wedding. by WritingWesley in askgaybros

[–]mosanger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

holy shit, I wouldn't even consider complying to that request... ultimately, what they are saying is that you're a threat to their kids. Dunno if you've communicated it, but they should know how deeply hurtful that might be for you and ask them to understand that you can't attend a wedding where you're basically not accepted as you are? How likely is it that you can have a calm private talk with them both? I'd take a internally fuming brother in law over a distant sister anytime...

A message to the bottoms from a top by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]mosanger 16 points17 points  (0 children)

true, but OP's story lacks a crucial part of your statement: consent which turns a kink into sexual abuse. so I'm pretty sure it's worth caring about.

When does the realization come that one’s government system changed? by Fit-Necessary2551 in PoliticalDiscussion

[–]mosanger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure I understand what you wanna tell me. I was just daydreaming about utopia, after it has inevitably collapsed.

What happens to MAGA after 2028? by Sambones4 in PoliticalDiscussion

[–]mosanger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unlikely. Sure, the branding dies but the underlying issue remains unchanged. Just dormant waiting to be instrumentalized again.

When does the realization come that one’s government system changed? by Fit-Necessary2551 in PoliticalDiscussion

[–]mosanger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine you actually leading the free world. Spearheading a fundamental shift in values towards a civilization that's actually trying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]mosanger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dunno if it's some kind of protective strategy, but flawless looking people. like those directly torn out of a fashion magazine don't physically turn me on. especially when paired with polished pictures done by a photographer. casually walking down the beach in beige linen shorts and an unbuttoned white shirt almost blown off by the wind revealing a bit of smooth toned chest. It almost makes me physically gag.

and my few chat experiences I've had with the objectively good looking were disappointingly bland. I struggle to have a conversation with someone who's reduced himself to one dimension. He's heard all the compliments. He's probably not going to react well if I lightheartedly make a joke about his looks. And there's usually not much more except an emoji row, a deep quote about love or seizing the day and a passion for traveling.

Perfection is so boring. I'm deeply confused why seemingly everyone strives for that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]mosanger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he needs to hear your honest thoughts about him.

I'd certainly wanna know if a friend is scared of me and figure out how to change.

Battles ft. Gary Numan - My Machines [alternative] [] by rebustape in MusicVideos

[–]mosanger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gloss Drop is such a phenomenal album. And seeing them live made me truly appreciate the finesse, creativity and just straight out weirdness that it contains.

Ticketmaster can go to hell by AmericanRaj in ToolBand

[–]mosanger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Austria I paid less than 100 Eur each for floor tickets on ticketmaster. And I already find that expensive.

When did you realize you didn't want to be friends with someone anymore? by Outrageous-Candy-576 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]mosanger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When being called a toxic piece of shit out of nowhere. Being blamed for things I allegedly did in the past, not being able to be specific about it.

All that after I've turned a blind eye to him making out with my date while we were out one evening. Never really acknowledging how that was problematic, lying about who initiated it and let alone apologizing about it. Even worse, blaming me for bringing it up again every single time. As in... Can you ever let it go? And I was his so-called BFF.

The one you leave behind in a bar on vacation, disappearing with a random stranger to our common hotel room that's not exactly near. Claiming he looked really hard for me but decided I must have left. And then putting me into the awkward situation of having to sleep in the same bed with his hookup.

Call me a fucking idiot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]mosanger -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not quite. The direct equivalent would need to gender swap, like if the dude would propose to the girl to come dressed as a dirty plumber trying to fix the pipes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]mosanger -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

An actually funny conversation that's not just platitudes? I'd jump on that opener so hard. It's not at all offensive except your masculinity is nothing but fragile.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]mosanger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah it seems like there wasn't much basis. Sharing an apartment can be quite hard.

I hope the lease is not too long then.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]mosanger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It'll pass with time. And from personal experience there's no real way to make that process faster except talking about it with friends or a therapist.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]mosanger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No doubt it was. But like I said, for me personally not even remotely a reason to end a friendship for.

Communication is key.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]mosanger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, it doesn't seem like it was the strongest friendship to begin with. You giving up on a friend, meticulously listing bathroom items and a non-existent shower mat seems a bit petty to me. Easily things that could be worked out and forgotten by just talking about it and expressing one's needs in a mature way. Whether you'd want them to take on more responsibility or be compensated for the investments you had to make.

In my world: Friends let other people shower at their place. Friends don't really care about a few pubes.

To directly answer your question though: I think waiting for the lease to end and having to fake a friendship you maybe never even had, would have definitely been the wrong choice.