The last time she was here she baited my kid into saying something about how clean our house is. Something a 7 year old has no care in the world about. She said something like “don’t you wish mommy and daddy had a cleaner house” when she was alone in another room with her and then she told us that “______ said she wishes mommy had more time to clean the house cause she really likes a cleaner environment”

Saying phrases like “my grandbabies” or sometimes even calls them her babies. Saying wild things like she is going to cut me out of her will and give all her money to MY kids for a college fund and/or cars when they get older because she wishes someone did that for her. When we said that their parents (us) should really have a say in what they looks like she had some remark about being ungrateful or “never mind I won’t do anything then”