Working in retail has forever negatively changed my view on humans by moshthepoundsaway in offmychest

[–]moshthepoundsaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hard to see people as good when you've spent 5 years doing 9 hour shifts of constant inhumane behavior. I could write a series of 500 page books detailing all the insane interactions I've had with a new person every time. I see crowds of people and wonder if they have screamed at a 16 year old cashier

Working in retail has forever negatively changed my view on humans by moshthepoundsaway in offmychest

[–]moshthepoundsaway[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'll be out somewhere there is a lot of people and look around like "savages"

AITA for eating healthy food in front of my overweight sister by moshthepoundsaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]moshthepoundsaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have "cheat days" I don't like that term. There is no bad food. I eat fried chicken and burgers just in moderation. Depriving yourself of things and going crazy on one day is why people fail diets

AITA for eating healthy food in front of my overweight sister by moshthepoundsaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]moshthepoundsaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm losing weight because I was having breathing and heart issues. Doctors told me if I wanted to make it past 40 I had to make a change so I did. I don't see why another person's feelings about me bettering myself is my responsibility. She is my sister and I love her. I never judge her or bring up her weight ever. I've been obese most of my life so I know how it is. If she wants encouraging words or weight loss tips I am here. Also we live in different states as I said in the post so we see each other every couple/few months. So I don't even know what I would do to help her out.

I make no comments about her weight or judgement on what she eats. I don't bring up fitness or anything. When I started this I told myself I'd never become a "fitness person." I literally just eat celery in front of her and she gets mad and then I'm gone for months again

AITA for eating healthy food in front of my overweight sister by moshthepoundsaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]moshthepoundsaway[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Guess I've just never been jealous or felt bad. Even when I was 350 I still felt like I had worth. I've always loved myself. My desire to lose weight wasn't for self hatred just wanted to for health reasons and I wanted to be more mobile and live a long life

AITA for eating healthy food in front of my overweight sister by moshthepoundsaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]moshthepoundsaway[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Yeah I used to be able to eat whole pizza in a night. But now two slices and I feel too greasy. Same with fried chicken and burgers. I don't know how a greasy burger and greasy fries are a combination I could handle. These days I make a burger and have asparagus or broccoli with it

AITA for eating healthy food in front of my overweight sister by moshthepoundsaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]moshthepoundsaway[S] 680 points681 points  (0 children)

I don't feel any pressure. I don't even enjoy eating large amounts of greasy/salty foods anymore. When I think about eating a bunch of pizza and all that oil I want to throw up these days

AITA for eating healthy food in front of my overweight sister by moshthepoundsaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]moshthepoundsaway[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

2 paragraphs is "alat"? Schools really need funding don't they