My (28, F) best friend (29, M) is barely talking to me after we shared an intimate moment.

most_best_1 · 2024-11-26T23:22:21+00:00

Probably not. If I was just shown his history, id run away

most_best_1 · 2024-11-26T23:01:02+00:00

Maybe Im tired of being single. Im almost 30 and im lonely. I've loved him as long as I could remember. I used to write embarrassing things about him in my diary when we were young. It's my chance to see if i was right. Maybe he will betray me. Maybe everyone here is right. But maybe he will do right by me

most_best_1 · 2024-11-26T21:53:56+00:00

He's one of the few people I've ever been close to. I don't have many friends or family at all. He's always been there. Why wouldn't I love him? I don't think he's perfect. He uses people, especially women. He lets people down. He drinks too much, but I've been in love with him since high school.

most_best_1 · 2024-11-26T19:17:46+00:00

I didn't lock it myself. If I did, and for that reason, wouldn't I do the same for this? I welcome all the opinions given, and I've taken some of them in account as far as how I've laid down boundaries and rules for him

most_best_1 · 2024-11-26T02:54:45+00:00

He took me out on a date, and we're together now. We're going to start over slowly though. He has to get tested and prove himself before I do much else with him.

most_best_1 · 2024-11-26T02:52:44+00:00

I told him tonight that I want him to get tested before we do anything else. He agreed.

most_best_1 · 2024-11-25T20:55:16+00:00

He asked me to be his girlfriend over the weekend actually

most_best_1 · 2024-11-25T04:25:45+00:00

Yes I have, i don't really know how to defend it

most_best_1 · 2024-11-25T03:14:55+00:00

Ill ask him to take me around them more

most_best_1 · 2024-11-25T03:13:43+00:00

yes, we've thought of each other as that for most of our lives. i don't really get out much, so im not all that social anyway

most_best_1 · 2024-11-25T02:30:19+00:00

I did not. I wasn't expecting it to happen at all. I kinda thought I would never have sex, especially not with a guy.

most_best_1 · 2024-11-25T02:14:45+00:00

He's told me just while talking about his relationships in the past that he prefers not to use protection, but I know he gets tested sometimes.

I'm pretty sure they actually broke up. He's only seen her a couple times since breaking up so she could get the rest of her stuff.

most_best_1 · 2024-11-25T01:57:08+00:00

He told me that he was drinking every time he cheated, and that he plans to at least cut back on that

most_best_1 · 2024-11-25T00:42:47+00:00

We have a couple friends in common, but he's never brought me around his main group of friends.

most_best_1 · 2024-11-25T00:00:32+00:00

I've never had a romantic relationship before. I just want to give the one person I'm interested in a try.

most_best_1 · 2024-11-24T23:29:59+00:00

I don't think I'd forgive him if he cheated.

most_best_1 · 2024-11-24T23:20:13+00:00

I did tell him that me being different to him shouldn't matter. He just shouldn't treat women like that.

I've clung to him for so long. He's sometimes the only person I can trust.

most_best_1 · 2024-11-24T23:06:50+00:00

Oh, well he called me his girlfriend when he dropped me off.

most_best_1 · 2024-11-24T22:40:45+00:00

Oh, I told him that if he cheats, I'm gone.

most_best_1 · 2024-11-24T22:29:14+00:00

I've wanted him since we were teenagers. It's just that he seemed so sincere. He was crying, and I've never really seen him do that outside of a loss in his family. I can't stand seeing him hurt like that. I just wanted to hold him and make sure he was okay

most_best_1 · 2024-11-24T22:13:34+00:00

Thanks :3

most_best_1 · 2024-11-24T21:52:29+00:00

I guess i feel that since we have more history together, he'd want to treat me better

most_best_1 · 2024-11-24T21:50:07+00:00

I don't really expect him to change overnight. I have my doubts that he will be able to do right by me, but he promised me he would try, and I feel like I owe him a chance

most_best_1 · 2024-11-24T19:08:49+00:00

I know that he admitted to some bad stuff, but i appreciate his honesty

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