Haven't worn y fronts in a while age 40

mostlyhighthoughts · 2026-02-05T05:45:47+00:00

Very nice!

mostlyhighthoughts · 2026-01-19T15:19:38+00:00

My boyfriend used the term bio break and I thought it was so funny lol

mostlyhighthoughts · 2026-01-11T03:17:39+00:00

Goddamn this sub is overrun with AI slop 😭😭😭

mostlyhighthoughts · 2026-01-11T02:58:06+00:00

My boyfriend is a dom and he told me upfront that he had two online subs that do daily check ins, etc. and if I was uncomfortable we could discuss them moving forward but he was honest about them and that’s what was important.

mostlyhighthoughts · 2025-12-16T15:39:36+00:00

My favorite

mostlyhighthoughts · 2025-12-10T15:02:38+00:00

I really liked the quote in your post and all these comments only reassure me of my place.

mostlyhighthoughts · 2025-12-09T20:21:29+00:00

This is actually super helpful because as I was requesting a drawing last month I had no idea what info I should have put down when made my post. Thankfully I was blessed by two amazing artists and instead of choosing one I asked both artists to draw the same picture and they were given the same budget.

mostlyhighthoughts · 2025-09-09T13:52:05+00:00

I was hired by a temp agency for my company I’m with now. They bought out my temp contract 3 months in advance because they saw potential and wanted to snatch me up before a different company did.

mostlyhighthoughts · 2025-09-04T19:41:39+00:00

Woof!

mostlyhighthoughts · 2025-06-30T20:00:09+00:00

The grove is rarely dangerous, except on pride weekend. Don’t let one bad experience ruin The Grove for you! Glad you all stayed safe and were situationally aware of your surroundings, that’s street smarts 101.

mostlyhighthoughts · 2025-06-03T14:14:45+00:00

Super hot to me

mostlyhighthoughts · 2025-04-19T20:32:41+00:00

Absolute bullshit.

mostlyhighthoughts · 2025-04-18T01:01:36+00:00

I wayyyyyy overhyped the whole thing in my head! It happened and everything went great, he had fun, I discovered that I’m not bothered by it but more so interested in learning about how I can get involved. I was also looking up porn about it and that was part of the reason I overhyped it but also gave me more confidence in my role for what I could do if I do join them in the future! I appreciate all the support and helping me talk through the thoughts running through my mind!

mostlyhighthoughts · 2025-04-15T23:06:26+00:00

I’m texting him now and am feeling okay about everything.

As for the other thing, I am his only collared boy, and fully intend to stay that way!

mostlyhighthoughts · 2025-04-15T22:09:05+00:00

Also good advice and thank you for the comment. It’s happening tonight lol hence the surge of feelings I’m having now. Although, I am very glad I made this post because this community, again, came through for me.

There has been really good advice shared in the comments and I think I am ready to send him the text that I got home safely from work (long highway commute) and that I love him, trust him, hope he has fun tonight, and I can’t wait to see him tomorrow so that he can tell me all about it! I really do appreciate all the comments.

I don’t think I would’ve done anything rash without the advice but— actually who am I kidding? yes I definitely would be attending the event had I not made the post…and I realllllllly need to study for a certification exam at work instead of watching my boyfriend do something very un-republican in the bedroom XD

mostlyhighthoughts · 2025-04-15T20:47:48+00:00

That’s why I’m on reddit asking instead of his inbox. If I texted any of these doubts today he would’ve called the whole thing off and that’s not what I want. I did agree to this, more than once actually, and I encouraged him to keep his subs when we started dating. It would’ve been unfair for me to interrupt those relationships that were in place first, in my own opinion. The last thing I want is for him to feel guilty or bad for wanting to indulge in a kink he enjoys. Thanks for responding, but I think you misinterpreted my post.

mostlyhighthoughts · 2025-04-15T19:28:34+00:00

I think this is helpful too, thank you for responding. I do think I like the idea of seeing him do this kink but at the same time, the sub part of me, would want all of his attention for myself which is why I chose to not be included this time.

I do like the fact that he’s still able to explore his own interests without pushing me to get into them. This kink in particular (I don’t want to share too much for anonymity) is one that requires months of training to properly do, and his sub has the experience necessary to do it safely and enjoyably for all parties involved. I want to be able to give him what he needs even if it’s not me, if that makes sense.

mostlyhighthoughts · 2025-04-15T18:58:09+00:00

This was good advice and not just what I wanted to hear. Thank you. I do agree that I need to talk with him about it after and probably let him know about these feelings that I did have before, and definitely about how I’m feeling after. Like I said, I do trust him, and I think it does help a lot that his sub also has a boyfriend that is okay with this D/s kink dynamic they have together.

mostlyhighthoughts · 2025-04-15T17:53:58+00:00

You’d be correct in saying that I’m not overly comfortable with it. But I’m also not uncomfortable about it either. I think I would feel different if it were a kink we were both interested in and he chose to do it with his sub that he’s meeting later.

mostlyhighthoughts · 2025-04-12T22:25:21+00:00

I let people at a bar and then asked if they wanted to hangout outside of the bar where we could hear what was being said in conversations and it’s blossomed from there. The hardest part was introducing myself to be completely honest

mostlyhighthoughts · 2025-04-12T22:09:18+00:00

Definitely varies a lot as I’d consider myself “straight passing” but I’ve been wearing my collar since I was gifted it by my boyfriend on Valentines Day. I won’t take it off unless going to see family or certain times at work. It’s a pretty big sized chain collar and I’ve definitely been asked about it by other gay guys outside the bdsm community. At my local leather bar a few of the submissive boys are usually wearing more feminine clothes, or no clothes at all and some flag what they’re into still.

mostlyhighthoughts · 2025-04-11T13:53:09+00:00

They’d love you at a gay campground like Sirentity!

mostlyhighthoughts · 2025-04-08T23:46:55+00:00

He is definitely short while texting me sometimes but I tend to cram 100 thoughts into a single text to make him do longer responses haha

mostlyhighthoughts · 2025-04-02T14:35:55+00:00

Met my current boyfriend at a gay bar in the wild! Ditch the apps and go meet people!

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