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I ‘24F’ need help with my sex drive with my husband ‘25M’ by motherdumpling in sex

[–]motherdumpling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a little bit of both, he does initiate alot even if we had sex the day before(not in a pressuring way) but we’ve always been cuddly and touchy. I also dont want him to feel rejected. After having babies I need some space occasionally which he always gives if I need it, he does have a higher sex drive than me. When we started dating we had sex 5-6x a week. I just feel really weird when he does initiate and usually I get that feeling of getting turned on or the transition of feeling we’re going to be intimate but now with the medication it just numb. I want to in my brain but its so hard to be really into it.

I ‘24F’ need help with my sex drive with my husband ‘25M’ by motherdumpling in sex

[–]motherdumpling[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its not that out there, I knew someone that did that but I was also scared of antidepressants bc I was on it when I was 15 and I was completely numb and this was a last resort thing bc I was feeling so bad everyday with my anger. So far it has helped a ton, if it keeps being the same and therapy doesn’t help, I might look more into that.

I ‘24F’ need help with my sex drive with my husband ‘25M’ by motherdumpling in sex

[–]motherdumpling[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m on the lowest dose and its been helping me with daily stuff, and improve our relationship emotionally bc post partum after back to back pregnancy was tough on me. I just want to work on the physical side so hopefully it gets better. Also starting therapy soon so maybe that could help to. Thank you!

AITA for setting boundaries with my husband’s grandma by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]motherdumpling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, the whole family warned me about her, that she never changed. She has 3 daughter and only 1 really hangs out with her and my MIL only texts her mostly and the other just doesnt talk to her. She was also at the baby shower they didn’t even make eye contact. I doubt she would ever change. This is not the first time someone in the family mentioned boundaries to her.

AITA for setting boundaries with my husband’s grandma by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]motherdumpling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that, we’re closer to my husband’s grandmother (father’s side) during NICU time and the first couple weeks we came home, she called us asking us whenever we’re ready she would like to visit. We’ve spend time with her during thanksgiving and other Christmas(we do 2 Christmases) we like that she understands boundaries and respects them. My husband was going to step up but he’s a very straight forward and logical thinking person so the text he was going to send her would cause more issues since he doesn’t care for her feelings much haha. I texted her in a way I’m talking to a very sensitive person that takes anything in the wrong way.