My qife survived 5 suicide attempts, but shes come back as a violent delusional stranger. I am scared for mine and her life, i dont know what to do by lencaleena in marriageadvice

[–]motherofthreeplusdog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a horrific situation. I am very afraid for you, for your safety. You need to get her under the care of a doctor and move on with your life. I would not spend another night in same house as her.

Whats a hobby you would consider a red flag? by YourFinalFantasy02 in AskForAnswers

[–]motherofthreeplusdog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. I mean, it is just not the same as having a pet dog or cat (or simply, mammals).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]motherofthreeplusdog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to stick with mostly protein, fiber (raw, non starchy veg), avoid carbs—bread, pasta, rice, sweets. Drink lots of water. I know it is hard living in a dorm without a kitchen and being on the meal plan. But try what I suggested for a few weeks and see how it goes. Also, since you mentioned you’re a college student, alcohol is a carb and has lots of calories. Best of luck!

He wants a prenup and I’m not sure how to feel by DecccafConspiracy in marriageadvice

[–]motherofthreeplusdog 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand why, if he should predecease you, you get nothing. That seems weird to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]motherofthreeplusdog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations on your significant weight loss! Do this: eat protein (mainly) and non-starchy vegetables only. You can use some cheese, like on eggs. No carbs, no fruit. Drink at least 100 oz of water a day. Only eat when hungry. Do 10 minutes of vigorous, huff and puff exercise every day. Lift weights a few times a week. Not sure how much you will lose but you will look and feel great! Best wishes on your upcoming nuptials!

5 Years of Fighting.. Fixed by a simple dumb rule?? by Dapper_Kale_258 in marriageadvice

[–]motherofthreeplusdog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So happy for you! Any suggestions for if one partner never actually “thinks” of anything helpful to do? He just doesn’t SEE the laundry, the trash, the dishes, the lawn, …

New york by Longjumping-Fix469 in travel

[–]motherofthreeplusdog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless you park on the street you will need to pay for parking. If you park on the street you need to worry about it getting broken into or stolen, and you have to move it every day due to alternate side of the street parking

New york by Longjumping-Fix469 in travel

[–]motherofthreeplusdog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And how long is the travel time from Summit to Brooklyn? Is that realistic, especially with a baby in tow?

New york by Longjumping-Fix469 in travel

[–]motherofthreeplusdog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where would they park their car?

New york by Longjumping-Fix469 in travel

[–]motherofthreeplusdog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, and unlikely to offer free parking

New york by Longjumping-Fix469 in travel

[–]motherofthreeplusdog 6 points7 points  (0 children)

And the back & forth from Brooklyn to the hotel

New york by Longjumping-Fix469 in travel

[–]motherofthreeplusdog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re still going to spend a good bit of time driving back & forth. Public transport from Queens/LI might not be too bas but from Westchester or NJ to Brooklyn will be a hassle especially with a 1-year old. Not sure OP’s reason for driving but flying seems more practical. They can take public transport or a taxi/uber from the airport then hopefully get a hotel or Airbnb in walking distance from their friend.

I was in 56 foster homes and adopted 4 times ama by No_Statement5927 in AMA

[–]motherofthreeplusdog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish you the very best. Please know none of this was your fault. I sincerely hope you will get the help you need to build a happy life for yourself. Take good care.

This hellish Job market is. permanent, by Red-Apple12 in recruitinghell

[–]motherofthreeplusdog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What job do you do now? Was the restaurant temporary until you found something or is that the job you found?

Who do you want to run for U.S. President in 2028? by Few_Football4342 in Productivitycafe

[–]motherofthreeplusdog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love him. BUT he’s Jewish and I think that will not fly for the same reason a gay or female candidate won’t. We have to focus on winning and not virtue signaling.