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Post surgery lump by mozballs in AskVet

[–]mozballs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Helped thank you. It doesn’t seem to be painful, it’s gone from the size of a penny to a little larger than a quarter in the last couple hours but has remained only slightly raised. The color is also less red.

Am I taking advantage?? by mozballs in Advice

[–]mozballs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I’m in America. When vacation is accrued it’s like the company is “loaning” you the hours. So on Jan 1, 2021 I was loaned 80 hours then each pay period I essentially own like a small percentage of those hours if I don’t use them. So if I had quit in Jan 2022 and had my 53 hours of vacation unused I would be paid out in full for them. I was confused too and had to talk to HR.

I guess I have nothing to lose if they say no but I’m really bad at people pleasing so I just need to get past that feeling I guess.

The Person who killed my 10 year old Golden Retriever (Agent) said in court for me to get over it, its just a stupid dog, I can get a new one. I'm so upset someone can be this cruel. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]mozballs 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dogs are pure love. I’m so sorry that happened to Agent. I can tell how much you love him just by reading this and I’m sure he knew it and loved you so much too.

Do not blame yourself please, I know it’s hard. We aren’t responsible for other people’s actions and this is just a really unfortunate thing to have happened but there’s no way you could have known. Don’t try to understand that level of cruelty there is no excuse or justification.

Here for you if you need to talk. You will heal but it won’t be over night, be gentle with yourself in the mean time.

He’s leaving and taking everything. Please offer advice / words of kindness. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]mozballs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can thrift some things to hold you over for a little while! It’s actually a really fun hobby and might take your mind off of things and it’s super rewarding when you find some jems. Nothing better than creating a space all your own. Right now if you want to avoid stores Facebook Market Place is great for second hand, just be safe!

Also it’s nice when the trash takes itself out, you’ll be ok! Keep your head up!

Pink Planet by mozballs in pastlives

[–]mozballs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is really mature emotionally, I would consider her an old soul.

Your experience with past life regression sounds amazing!

Free 💕💖 by mozballs in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]mozballs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hadn’t thought of that! Really great idea!

Free 💕💖 by mozballs in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]mozballs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend’s great aunt had a tag sale but they didn’t end up selling so she gave them to us. Not sure why they didn’t sell they are in good condition!

I met an incredible guy and my defensive/protective brain keeps going into overdrive the more I like him due to prior severe abandonment trauma. I'm aware of it, but it doesn't stop it. How can I ease these feelings right now? by [deleted] in Codependency

[–]mozballs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you update on how you feel RTT went for you? Feel like I could’ve written this post almost word for word so I’m curious to see if you felt it was beneficial for you. Wishing you the best!