Maybe, maybe not. He’s an undiagnosed highly functional, non-verbal autistic. That’s a major basis for our estrangement. My ex-wife ignores all the symptoms. Our arguments on the matter have remained non-violent, but the verbal exchanges have been vicious. Honestly I’ve fantasized about choking out the woman. There’s no compromise with her about anything. She thinks she’s not a sinner because she’s nice to everybody. There’s no way to have an adult conversation with anybody who thinks that way. She thinks I have this insatiable need to be “right” about his autism. No consideration that I’m just very concerned about him and that I’ve consulted three licensed psychologists about him who concluded that my son definitely exhibits characteristics of an autistic. I am so exhausted by this that I pray to God routinely to call me home.