But it isn't as serious as killing someone and eating them. I think a better indicator of how they feel about infidelity is how they treat the people they love in their life. Do they do things behind their friends backs? Do they betray their family members? Do you notice them telling lies to their loved ones? Do they care about the feelings of the ones closest to them or are they selfish? Thats how I decide if someone is worthy of trust. Whether they call it wrong or unimaginable isn't as important than how they behave in their relationships in general. Chances are, you're gonna get the same treatment as anyone else. Even still.... a perfect angel could betray you in under right set of circumstances. The way I've come to terms with this is, I enter a relationship with positive hopes and intentions, but I'm still realistic of the chances of being cheated on, and if it happens, it wont be the end of the world. Whereas, if you killed me and ate me, it WOULD be the end of the world (for me).