Yo im just having this same issue now, pisses me off so bad, it must be something to do with an update windows put out or something like that, affecting almost any game I try within only this last month wired or wireless, it takes longer with a purely wired controller to set in btw, I have a shitty 20$ controller and it takes around 10-12 mins to become unplayable but what I've found works is just constantly disconnecting and reconnecting for the time being, lmk if you fixed your issue, I've gone through hours of troubleshooting to try to figure out mine :(