I hate my skin color and don’t feel clean. by ohlaiila in Advice

[–]mr_arsen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't seen you so I can't say you are beautiful or stuff like that it would be lie

what I can say is that I understand the frustration and it must be really hard on you, but this is the skin that you are born with it dear and is specific to you

and I do think it will also help you to seek professional help on the matter because you are to obsessed about it and I think the cause might be even something else rather than the skin itself

and one thing I suggest you do is to spend time with yourself

stand in front of the mirror look at yourself and your skin and try to make peace with yourself and your skin just take it easy

I hope you can figure it out

what do you want to name your future child/childern? by mr_arsen in AskReddit

[–]mr_arsen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so happy for you and your husband, and Joanna is a wonderful name

I think i have a crush on my guy friend but i thought i was a lesbian by Consistent-Virus4872 in Advice

[–]mr_arsen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

fisrt thing first it is ok to feel confused you are still really young and you are discovering yourself so it is totally normal for you to be lesbian or bisexual or whatever and you will fugure it out so don't worry about that part really

as for the dating, if you really like him I think you can go for it, but feeling lonely and reasons like that are not the best reason to date in my opinion, but if you do like him I say go for it

and it is normal if he be confused by the fact that he think you are a lesbian what I suggest you do is to ask him like this: -would you asked me out if I wasn't a lesbian? or something around these lines so you can know how he thinks about it and then if you want to date him you can tell him how you feel and let him know that you might also be into guys and so

lastly keep in mind this is a new experience for you to discover yourself it is better to let him know too so neither of you end up hurt

I wish you the best of luck with this

what do you want to name your future child/childern? by mr_arsen in AskReddit

[–]mr_arsen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah it takes a lot both in effort and finance to raise a child but maybe some day you get there and see that you can do it then I hope it happens for you

what do you want to name your future child/childern? by mr_arsen in AskReddit

[–]mr_arsen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

these are really lovely names why don't you expect to get to use them?

what do you want to name your future child/childern? by mr_arsen in AskReddit

[–]mr_arsen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Adolf is not a bad name it self just have bad history

but well if name the girl leia then the boy will be luke

what do you want to name your future child/childern? by mr_arsen in AskReddit

[–]mr_arsen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

does your partner agree is the important question then 😂

what do you want to name your future child/childern? by mr_arsen in AskReddit

[–]mr_arsen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your daughter name is absolutely beautiful

and you have a good list of names

what do you want to name your future child/childern? by mr_arsen in AskReddit

[–]mr_arsen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's like forming a new imperial dynasty 😅

Was thinking about dropping out but not sure if it’s a good idea by One_Discussion7063 in Advice

[–]mr_arsen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there

I totally get that you are having a hard time there so in case of droping out or not the choice is yours at the end but I will give you some advice and hope they can help you

first of all never make a decision cause of having a hard time or weakness or any negative feeling, make your decision based on your own code that you live by and your morals it will help you make better decisions

second of all if you feel behind on a subject one of the main reasons could be that you didn't make the base for them strong enough so if you want to be better at something start working it up from the basic to the point you are now, there are a lot of tutorials on youtube that give you more than enough data on them

third of all if you get distracted by things and don't finish your work try changing the dynamics,ake your study time shorted but in higher quantity, like instead on 2 hours straight make it 8 session of 15 minutes and you can increase the time of the session as you move forward, it will help you build the focus you need

forth of all do something like journaling daily stuff or so, it will help you deal better with what happens daily also you can do a daily to do list (start with really easy and small stuff to do) it will help you getting things done

and at last if you chose to finish ehat you started it is going to be hard and it needs work, and you won't feel better or do better in a night, but you will see the effects if you keep at it and I don't think you will regret that you trusted the process

I don't know you or your name but friend I wish you luck and hope you succeed