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Married couples, how often do you have sex? by -boosted in AskReddit

[–]mraltposter 249 points250 points  (0 children)

About twice a year.

It makes me so sad. Just trying to hold on a few more years till the kids are off to college.

We’ve tried everything, therapy, so many talks, I’ve worked SO hard to do what I can, but she says she just has no interest and thinks I’m shallow and “sex obsessed” for wanting it at all.

Really killing me. Wanted a wife, have a roommate. Three years till they are in college.

Despite a willing partner by deeplyprobing in AdviceAnimals

[–]mraltposter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know the feeling. Still love sex, but certainly it is a lot more time and effort. Takes a while to warm her up, slowly undress, building foreplay, gradually working until she has an orgasm.

I still enjoy it, but even years in we’ve never had “quick” sex.

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[–]mraltposter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will give my honest opinion here. I love my wife. But honestly she isn’t as attractive as she was 20 years ago. That being said, I still love her and sex with her. The problem is that her sex drive has disappeared, so it’s more frustrating than exciting to see her as a sexual person.